So I know I don't have nearly as much to bitch about as some people here. But it's the middle of the night and nobody is online who gives a shit and can talk to me live, so I'm going to post it here anyway.
One of my favorite people is leaving. That does not make me pissed off, but it does make me sad. She was one of the only people to befriend me in this park when I was here a couple years ago, and we've had some great times since I've been back. She's been my workout buddy, my drinking buddy, and my confidante. I understand why she needs to leave and I know it will be better for her where she's going. I'm just really going to miss her.
The other thing that's happened tonight is, I asked a coworker a couple days ago where I could get special food for his cat. He has two cats and was going to give one of them to us because the two eat different food and if they eat each other's food, they throw up. My fiance was at first like "yeah, let's adopt him sometime" and then later it was "let's wait until we're settled in to the new apartment" and then it was "I don't think I'm ready for that kind of responsibility" and then "cats spray everywhere and I don't want to have to replace a bunch of our stuff". Well, I had long since said we were going to do it in July, to both my fiance and the coworker. I FB messaged him to ask him what food to get (it's a specific brand) and he didn't answer me for over a day and then texted me that he found another home for the cat because he didn't think we were interested. I told him I never said that, I said we'd take him in July.
To be clear, I am NOT pissed off because "that was my cat and he gave it away!!!" That would be fucking selfish - the cat needs to live somewhere else so he can eat his own food and stay healthy. I'm pissed off at my fiance for refusing to commit. If he doesn't want a cat, he should just say he doesn't want a cat and stop jerking me around. What really pissed me off, though, was when he went to bed and I told him about the text and he was like "Oh, well, <cat name> will always be my kitty." No he fucking won't! You never took care of him a day in his life!!!
One of my favorite people is leaving. That does not make me pissed off, but it does make me sad. She was one of the only people to befriend me in this park when I was here a couple years ago, and we've had some great times since I've been back. She's been my workout buddy, my drinking buddy, and my confidante. I understand why she needs to leave and I know it will be better for her where she's going. I'm just really going to miss her.
The other thing that's happened tonight is, I asked a coworker a couple days ago where I could get special food for his cat. He has two cats and was going to give one of them to us because the two eat different food and if they eat each other's food, they throw up. My fiance was at first like "yeah, let's adopt him sometime" and then later it was "let's wait until we're settled in to the new apartment" and then it was "I don't think I'm ready for that kind of responsibility" and then "cats spray everywhere and I don't want to have to replace a bunch of our stuff". Well, I had long since said we were going to do it in July, to both my fiance and the coworker. I FB messaged him to ask him what food to get (it's a specific brand) and he didn't answer me for over a day and then texted me that he found another home for the cat because he didn't think we were interested. I told him I never said that, I said we'd take him in July.
To be clear, I am NOT pissed off because "that was my cat and he gave it away!!!" That would be fucking selfish - the cat needs to live somewhere else so he can eat his own food and stay healthy. I'm pissed off at my fiance for refusing to commit. If he doesn't want a cat, he should just say he doesn't want a cat and stop jerking me around. What really pissed me off, though, was when he went to bed and I told him about the text and he was like "Oh, well, <cat name> will always be my kitty." No he fucking won't! You never took care of him a day in his life!!!
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