My mom has a lot of trouble getting rid of things. I also think it became worse after her mom died. My step-dad "tries to help" from time to time. I put that in quotes because his strategy is to barge around holding up things saying "you don't use this, do you?" And he won't cooperate when she tries to include him in cleaning. She likes to have a specific goal, like one room. Then she goes through the stuff and makes piles to keep, to give away, to throw away, etc. She will bring him in and say "this pile is your stuff. All I'd like you to do is deal with this one pile." And he immediately wanders off and starts going through a different pile, or even starts on a different room. So she cleans that room, but his pile is still there. She's pretty OCD, so she literally can't keep going until that room is done. ...They've been married for over 20 years.
I know most think I'm crazy but, I love moving! It's not super fun while it's happening, of course. But I really like purging, and then unpacking in the new place and it's only stuff I use and like. I renewed my lease, by the time it's up again I will have lived here for four years which is the longest I've lived anywhere other than the house I grew up in. I need to do a big clean soon, after I deal with my internship interview. /panic
I know most think I'm crazy but, I love moving! It's not super fun while it's happening, of course. But I really like purging, and then unpacking in the new place and it's only stuff I use and like. I renewed my lease, by the time it's up again I will have lived here for four years which is the longest I've lived anywhere other than the house I grew up in. I need to do a big clean soon, after I deal with my internship interview. /panic
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