Unfortunately, when it comes to funerals, I've got some experience.
Just dress nicely- like business casual. Nothing too fancy, but not your jeans and a t-shirt either.
Most people wear black or dark colors. Guys black/navy jackets, women black dress/dress clothes.
As for the casket, I don't remember the casket being left open during the funeral- that's what they usually do at the viewing. And if it is open, you don't have to go up to the casket if you don't want. I know it sounds scary to think of looking upon a dead person, but the morticians do a good job of making it look like the person is simply sleeping. To me anyway, it's not as scary as it sounds.
For me, the viewing/funeral lends a sort of closure. It lets your brain know for certain what your heart doesn't want to really believe. And then you can really start the healing process.
You have my sympathies. I feel emotional just talking about this.
Just dress nicely- like business casual. Nothing too fancy, but not your jeans and a t-shirt either.
Most people wear black or dark colors. Guys black/navy jackets, women black dress/dress clothes.
As for the casket, I don't remember the casket being left open during the funeral- that's what they usually do at the viewing. And if it is open, you don't have to go up to the casket if you don't want. I know it sounds scary to think of looking upon a dead person, but the morticians do a good job of making it look like the person is simply sleeping. To me anyway, it's not as scary as it sounds.
For me, the viewing/funeral lends a sort of closure. It lets your brain know for certain what your heart doesn't want to really believe. And then you can really start the healing process.
You have my sympathies. I feel emotional just talking about this.
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