So, in my Senior Trip post, I mentioned at the end that I am done with the SO and have started a long distance relationship with Plaidman.
Here's the story:
Plaidman and I had been getting close. We talked everyday, texted,etc. I was with SO.
Slowly, I had been realizing that SO was really immature and that he was doing nothing to get out of his parents' house. That irked me. I am looking out for my future and that hurts it.
Another thing he did that I was too afraid to bring up was that sometimes, during sex, I start to hurt. Cysts do that. So, I would tell him that we need to stop, but he wouldn't stop. He told me to"hold on a bit longer". It hurt so much that I would cry and fight and try to get away. He still wouldn't stop.
I wasn't going to take it. I haven't talked to him for a while. I don't answer his calls. I don't call him.
During this relationship, I was slowly falling for Plaidman. He's a really sweet guy who cares for me and I know our relationship isn't based off of appearances or sexual gratification.
So, Plaidman and I are together and it has been wonderful. I can concentrate on schoolwork and my job, but still have someone who cares. I know long distance is tough, but I am pretty sure I can deal with it. He's coming here for graduation and I am going there in May.
Here's the story:
Plaidman and I had been getting close. We talked everyday, texted,etc. I was with SO.
Slowly, I had been realizing that SO was really immature and that he was doing nothing to get out of his parents' house. That irked me. I am looking out for my future and that hurts it.
Another thing he did that I was too afraid to bring up was that sometimes, during sex, I start to hurt. Cysts do that. So, I would tell him that we need to stop, but he wouldn't stop. He told me to"hold on a bit longer". It hurt so much that I would cry and fight and try to get away. He still wouldn't stop.
I wasn't going to take it. I haven't talked to him for a while. I don't answer his calls. I don't call him.
During this relationship, I was slowly falling for Plaidman. He's a really sweet guy who cares for me and I know our relationship isn't based off of appearances or sexual gratification.
So, Plaidman and I are together and it has been wonderful. I can concentrate on schoolwork and my job, but still have someone who cares. I know long distance is tough, but I am pretty sure I can deal with it. He's coming here for graduation and I am going there in May.
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