Arrgh.
Well, BF and I have been d@ting for over 4 months now, and we've been having some pretty good times.
Today was a bit different.
We drove out to a local large mountain, but the park entrance was closed.
We then took a bit of a hike, from the parking lot. Coming down, we noticed a really pretty area and went over to take pictures.
I'm in the middle of taking pictures, I've got the shot, and he then jumps in front of me from the area I was taking pictures towards. He's got this little boy-happy look on his face, but the first thing out of my mouth was 'COULD YOU PLEASE MOVE?' He broke the trance/the shot I was ready to make. He got all upset and went back to the car.
Silence after that, drove for awhile....Went to a specific store, for bikes. He said, ok, this place, go park in the library since we can't find parking. He steers me towards the library- the one opening on the road I'm on is the EXIT. (doesn't he know where he's going?) ...so arrrgh smore, try to find parking. Yay. I found parking.
We go into the bike shop and start looking around. He then comments, "That bike will fit you just fine." He was pointing at a little toddler/small child bike (I am 5 foot tall even). I told him, "That's not funny. Stop it, I'm tired of it."
Later when we left, I told him gently; "Please stop making fun of my height. I've had it all my life, I know what size I am. Don't need to be reminded."
His retort was " I never know what to play with you anymore, I'm always on pins and needles around you, I can never tell what you're going to laugh at!"
He told me he "cant say 'Sure you can fix that?' anymore about the computer jobs I'm doing, since you always get upset at that." I told him - "I'm already sensitive about my general self esteem, I don't need it to be poked and to be made fun of".
It got a bit heated and he decided to walk home. I'm home now, alone, and still frustrated. How can I get it across that I DO NOT LIKE being poked fun of for being Japanese, Short, Epileptic, Computer Tech?
Cutenoob
Well, BF and I have been d@ting for over 4 months now, and we've been having some pretty good times.
Today was a bit different.
We drove out to a local large mountain, but the park entrance was closed.
We then took a bit of a hike, from the parking lot. Coming down, we noticed a really pretty area and went over to take pictures.
I'm in the middle of taking pictures, I've got the shot, and he then jumps in front of me from the area I was taking pictures towards. He's got this little boy-happy look on his face, but the first thing out of my mouth was 'COULD YOU PLEASE MOVE?' He broke the trance/the shot I was ready to make. He got all upset and went back to the car.
Silence after that, drove for awhile....Went to a specific store, for bikes. He said, ok, this place, go park in the library since we can't find parking. He steers me towards the library- the one opening on the road I'm on is the EXIT. (doesn't he know where he's going?) ...so arrrgh smore, try to find parking. Yay. I found parking.
We go into the bike shop and start looking around. He then comments, "That bike will fit you just fine." He was pointing at a little toddler/small child bike (I am 5 foot tall even). I told him, "That's not funny. Stop it, I'm tired of it."
Later when we left, I told him gently; "Please stop making fun of my height. I've had it all my life, I know what size I am. Don't need to be reminded."
His retort was " I never know what to play with you anymore, I'm always on pins and needles around you, I can never tell what you're going to laugh at!"
He told me he "cant say 'Sure you can fix that?' anymore about the computer jobs I'm doing, since you always get upset at that." I told him - "I'm already sensitive about my general self esteem, I don't need it to be poked and to be made fun of".
It got a bit heated and he decided to walk home. I'm home now, alone, and still frustrated. How can I get it across that I DO NOT LIKE being poked fun of for being Japanese, Short, Epileptic, Computer Tech?
Cutenoob
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