To make it short - "Jerry" is a guy whom I'd encountered via a local Yahoo chat room, we've talked a few times, and the topic of meeting in person has come up. However, he apparently doesn't have transportation or the spare cash to go out, so he keeps suggesting that I come over to his place to hang out and watch movies or sports events with him.
Now, I don't get the feeling that "Jerry" has ulterior motives or anything, but I just feel it's very awkward to have the first meeting be at his place (or mine, for that matter), and no matter how many times I've told him this, it never quite seems to sink in. And he also seems to forget sometimes that I work two jobs, and I don't have my own transportation either, so it's a little more difficult (but not impossible) for me to get out and do things.
So, I'm looking for suggestions on simple, inexpensive ideas for things to go out and do (this would not be a date, I'm not into "Jerry" that way)..... any ideas are much appreciated.
Now, I don't get the feeling that "Jerry" has ulterior motives or anything, but I just feel it's very awkward to have the first meeting be at his place (or mine, for that matter), and no matter how many times I've told him this, it never quite seems to sink in. And he also seems to forget sometimes that I work two jobs, and I don't have my own transportation either, so it's a little more difficult (but not impossible) for me to get out and do things.
So, I'm looking for suggestions on simple, inexpensive ideas for things to go out and do (this would not be a date, I'm not into "Jerry" that way)..... any ideas are much appreciated.
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