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So I've been told I've been missed a little round these parts.
Here I am with a update and probably a need for hugs.
Life isn't sucking as much as it did but then I'm still missing my husband every bit as much as the day I lost him.
The tears still come on odd occasions but the pain is a little less intense then when it first happened. I'm keeping in touch with his family and they are doing ok. I wrote a post in my livejournal if any one is interested. Here Sorry it's set up for automatic over 18s thingy because some of my other entries are more... well yes *cough* So be warned if you poke about at the other couple of entries that Slash is ahead. 
So my hubby had a death in service. It amounts to a fair bit as well as small pension which is nice. So the past few weeks I've been doing the grown up thing of clearing debts, buying needed things and generally making sure I'm secure. In that vein I ended up at the bank today talking to my advisers about investing some of the large some into some accounts of various types (ISAs, Term Deposits and some other stuff) so I don't have all my eggs in one baskets so to speak. So at least I should be in reasonable shape for the next few years money wise.
Work has been the usual chaos that it tends to be with added fun of being told to keep my hours properly and not swipe in early or late out.
Oh that'll happen when we get more staff maybe? I ended up going down a half hour early on Thursday due the rather large cock up on the rota because someone was ill and they knew about it but didn't do anything about it.
At least I'm not there for a week now since I'm having knee surgery on the 1st (Monday). I'm going to relax and enjoy surfing from my new shiny netbook in bed.
Really I am doing ok if not quite myself but I'm trying to remember who she is and how to be her just at the moment though I'm not sure I'm ever going to be the same.
Here I am with a update and probably a need for hugs.
Life isn't sucking as much as it did but then I'm still missing my husband every bit as much as the day I lost him.
The tears still come on odd occasions but the pain is a little less intense then when it first happened. I'm keeping in touch with his family and they are doing ok. I wrote a post in my livejournal if any one is interested. Here Sorry it's set up for automatic over 18s thingy because some of my other entries are more... well yes *cough* So be warned if you poke about at the other couple of entries that Slash is ahead. So my hubby had a death in service. It amounts to a fair bit as well as small pension which is nice. So the past few weeks I've been doing the grown up thing of clearing debts, buying needed things and generally making sure I'm secure. In that vein I ended up at the bank today talking to my advisers about investing some of the large some into some accounts of various types (ISAs, Term Deposits and some other stuff) so I don't have all my eggs in one baskets so to speak. So at least I should be in reasonable shape for the next few years money wise.
Work has been the usual chaos that it tends to be with added fun of being told to keep my hours properly and not swipe in early or late out.
Oh that'll happen when we get more staff maybe? I ended up going down a half hour early on Thursday due the rather large cock up on the rota because someone was ill and they knew about it but didn't do anything about it.At least I'm not there for a week now since I'm having knee surgery on the 1st (Monday). I'm going to relax and enjoy surfing from my new shiny netbook in bed.
Really I am doing ok if not quite myself but I'm trying to remember who she is and how to be her just at the moment though I'm not sure I'm ever going to be the same.
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