So our washer blew up about a week ago.
We had some water damage the nasty carpets are now toast and it pushed my mom to realize that she can't live in this apartment much longer.
Now this apartment was not in great shape when we moved in. In fact i would say despite the washer now being completely toast its in the same or slight better condition from when we moved in because we bought some appliances.
My mom did some thinking and talked to me and well we have a plan.
since one of the reasons she hasn't even looked in the last 5 years is because with 4 adults there is a ton of stuff she does couldn't even deal the thought of packing I am going to move in with my dad for 3 months.
That way my big piece of furniture can be out of here and she can work on some things without it in the way (i have a chiffarobe, a bookcase, tv stand the size of my bookcase, my bed and a few boxes and tubs of yarn and stuff) and this way she can have me help with the fixing of the apartment up but the dog and my stuff is out of the way.
we have an agreement. Its only 3 months.
i either move back here by January 1st because the boy finally got his own place which hes been threatening to do (its not a threat if we all want it boy) or she would find a larger place, which she could afford because of the recession made house around here cheap, to buy or rent.
but i also told her that I will not stay passed January first.
My father is a passive aggressive dependent manipulative bi polar baby and if im there passed the holidays i will become a de facto caregiver which i am not willing to do. i would seriously kill myself before doing that.
Basically i told her she had better spend October doing the work needed in the apartment and start looking in November or she might be able to move into someplace January first. If it doesn't look like ill be moving back with her January 1st im moving in with my grandmother. No way in hell will i live with him in 2011.
so... that's my news.
We had some water damage the nasty carpets are now toast and it pushed my mom to realize that she can't live in this apartment much longer.
Now this apartment was not in great shape when we moved in. In fact i would say despite the washer now being completely toast its in the same or slight better condition from when we moved in because we bought some appliances.
My mom did some thinking and talked to me and well we have a plan.
since one of the reasons she hasn't even looked in the last 5 years is because with 4 adults there is a ton of stuff she does couldn't even deal the thought of packing I am going to move in with my dad for 3 months.
That way my big piece of furniture can be out of here and she can work on some things without it in the way (i have a chiffarobe, a bookcase, tv stand the size of my bookcase, my bed and a few boxes and tubs of yarn and stuff) and this way she can have me help with the fixing of the apartment up but the dog and my stuff is out of the way.
we have an agreement. Its only 3 months.
i either move back here by January 1st because the boy finally got his own place which hes been threatening to do (its not a threat if we all want it boy) or she would find a larger place, which she could afford because of the recession made house around here cheap, to buy or rent.
but i also told her that I will not stay passed January first.
My father is a passive aggressive dependent manipulative bi polar baby and if im there passed the holidays i will become a de facto caregiver which i am not willing to do. i would seriously kill myself before doing that.
Basically i told her she had better spend October doing the work needed in the apartment and start looking in November or she might be able to move into someplace January first. If it doesn't look like ill be moving back with her January 1st im moving in with my grandmother. No way in hell will i live with him in 2011.
so... that's my news.
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