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  • This is bad... Very bad... (warning: deaths and cancer)

    I have just been informed of three horrible things.

    1) Two of my favorite "nieces" (not blood related, but may as well have been) died, on Sunday, in a car crash caused by their alcoholic bio-father. The asshole is fine, but my loving and beautiful nieces are gone.

    2) One of my uncles died Saturday night after celebrating his and his wife's 40-something-th wedding anniversary. Heart attack in the middle of the night. He just never woke up.

    3) Last year, my mother had a radical mastectomy to remove cancer from her right breast. That was her third bout with cancer of various forms (ovarian, uterine, breast). She went to the doctor on Monday... and the doctor found another lump in the same side as her breast cancer.

    She's already said that she won't go through chemo again.

    We're waiting for test results to find out if it's malignant or not. 80% chance that it is.


    I'm not doing well. With that and the fact that my hubs is in Korea for a year... I'm just... really not doing well.


    Please... say a prayer for my nieces and my uncle... and spare a little for my mother and our family.

    ... I'm going to go cry again, now...
    hea·then [hee-thuhn] noun
    1. an unconverted individual that does not acknowledge the God of the Bible.
    2. an irreligious, uncultured, or uncivilized person.
    3. the children of NotSoInnocent.

  • #2
    Oh nooo!
    I don't know what to say other than I'll be praying for you and your family, especially your mum!
    Don't tempt pixies, it never ends well.

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    • #3
      Have done and will continue to do so.

      I'm sorry your family is going through such a terrible time.

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      • #4
        *many hugs and prayers*
        Unseen but seeing
        oh dear, now they're masquerading as sane-KiaKat
        There isn't enough interpretive dance in the workplace these days-Irv
        3rd shift needs love, too
        RIP, mo bhrionglóid

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        • #5
          *hugs*

          Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.
          You really need to see a neurologist. - Wagegoth

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          • #6
            My thoughts are with you and yours.

            I'm so sorry.

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            • #7
              Oh honey *hugs* My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry

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              • #8
                I don't know what to say, so I'll just send hugs & prayers.
                That is so full of suck Dyson doesn't know how they did it - shankyknitter

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                • #9
                  *hugs*

                  *prayers*
                  I'm bringing disdain back...with a vengeance.

                  Oh, and your tool box called...you got out again.

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                  • #10
                    Quoth Sonoma View Post
                    I don't know what to say, so I'll just send hugs & prayers.
                    QFT.

                    I am well versed in the "gentle" art of verbal self-defense

                    Once is an accident; Twice is coincidence; Thrice is a pattern.

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                    • #11
                      Shit.
                      I'd prescribe just going back to bed and curling up under the blankets; add your children and/or pets in various quantities.
                      ... Your day can only get better?
                      EDIT: any more of this and your husband might be able to apply for some sort of leave of an emergency sort. Good or bad, discuss?
                      "Is it the lie that keeps you sane? Is this the lie that keeps you sane?What is it?Can it be?Ought it to exist?"
                      "...and may it be that I cleave to the ugly truth, rather than the beautiful lie..."

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                      • #12
                        Christ.

                        My thoughts are with you and your family

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                        • #13
                          I will pray for you and your family. I'm so very sorry...
                          I have a...thing. Wanna see it?

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                          • #14
                            Quoth teh_blumchenkinder View Post
                            EDIT: any more of this and your husband might be able to apply for some sort of leave of an emergency sort. Good or bad, discuss?
                            He could get emergency leave... but we would have to pay for his flights. Guess what we aren't able to do.
                            hea·then [hee-thuhn] noun
                            1. an unconverted individual that does not acknowledge the God of the Bible.
                            2. an irreligious, uncultured, or uncivilized person.
                            3. the children of NotSoInnocent.

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                            • #15
                              I'm so sorry. That's an awful lot of Bad for your family all at once. I sincerely hope that things will get better.
                              When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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