So as some of you are aware, I was talking about a relationship and how good it was going and all that.
Well, over the weekend The Boy came to see me at school and it made me think.
1)We are too opposite. I'm ambitious, motivated, and anal rententive sometimes. He has no regard for time and was constantly waffling about going to school (even though his schooling would be free). Things that he did made me frustrated and set off my OCD and I would become agitated and cranky. He was too immature and I am more mature for my age. There is a time and place for immaturity. He obviously didn't learn it.
2)He is still hung up over his ex, even if he denies it to himself. He was always talking about one in particular that did him wrong in June. No matter the conversation, it would always turn back to her. Now, it's not the fact that he might still have feelings because that would be hypocritical of me. However, he was always talking shit, even though he still hung out with her.
3)He was smothering me. When I was at home, he was always trying to hang out, even though I told him that I wanted a night to relax. When I had a weekend at school, he would always try to come up. I had to tell him NO because school is 24/7 socialization. I need McG time. It keeps my sanity. That and the PDA. I like hugs. i hug people in public. Kisses on the cheek are fine. However, he wanted to kiss me on the lips all the time in public. During a costume contest line up, in front of a lot of people, he tried to kiss me. NO! NOT COOL! He was always over protective of me to the point of territorial.
I needed to break up with him because these were things that I had already brought to his attention and he wasn't listening. Since I was at school, I had to call him up. He yelled at me and hung up on me. When i got home to check my facebook, he left me Room of Angel song on my wall and took me off his facebook. Later on, I got texts from a friend because he wanted stuff back. I told her that it was ridiculous that he couldn't talk to me himself.
Later, I get messages on facebook that say something along the lines of "I want my Marine pin back. You can have your rose back. You owe me $10 for the garb I got you. By the way, fuck you."
It's not like I did something horrible. I did something that I felt was right.
Oh well.
So I wasn't even single for 24 hours and I got three offers for dates. You know what? I will gladly go. I am going to go have fun and not let him being a douchenozzle bring me down.
Well, over the weekend The Boy came to see me at school and it made me think.
1)We are too opposite. I'm ambitious, motivated, and anal rententive sometimes. He has no regard for time and was constantly waffling about going to school (even though his schooling would be free). Things that he did made me frustrated and set off my OCD and I would become agitated and cranky. He was too immature and I am more mature for my age. There is a time and place for immaturity. He obviously didn't learn it.
2)He is still hung up over his ex, even if he denies it to himself. He was always talking about one in particular that did him wrong in June. No matter the conversation, it would always turn back to her. Now, it's not the fact that he might still have feelings because that would be hypocritical of me. However, he was always talking shit, even though he still hung out with her.
3)He was smothering me. When I was at home, he was always trying to hang out, even though I told him that I wanted a night to relax. When I had a weekend at school, he would always try to come up. I had to tell him NO because school is 24/7 socialization. I need McG time. It keeps my sanity. That and the PDA. I like hugs. i hug people in public. Kisses on the cheek are fine. However, he wanted to kiss me on the lips all the time in public. During a costume contest line up, in front of a lot of people, he tried to kiss me. NO! NOT COOL! He was always over protective of me to the point of territorial.
I needed to break up with him because these were things that I had already brought to his attention and he wasn't listening. Since I was at school, I had to call him up. He yelled at me and hung up on me. When i got home to check my facebook, he left me Room of Angel song on my wall and took me off his facebook. Later on, I got texts from a friend because he wanted stuff back. I told her that it was ridiculous that he couldn't talk to me himself.
Later, I get messages on facebook that say something along the lines of "I want my Marine pin back. You can have your rose back. You owe me $10 for the garb I got you. By the way, fuck you."
It's not like I did something horrible. I did something that I felt was right.
Oh well.
So I wasn't even single for 24 hours and I got three offers for dates. You know what? I will gladly go. I am going to go have fun and not let him being a douchenozzle bring me down.
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