Let me explain. Everything was fine at the beginning. He was so sure of going to school and we had talked about PDA and everything else. After a while, he started waffling about school and did everything I outlined.
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Quoth McGoddess09 View PostLet me explain. Everything was fine at the beginning. He was so sure of going to school and we had talked about PDA and everything else. After a while, he started waffling about school and did everything I outlined."I've found that when you want to know the truth about someone, that someone is probably the last person you should ask." - House
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Quoth LexiaFira View Postthat may be but what about the people you DID hurt before this. No question that the most recent ex was rude and cruel but what about those before him? an open ended question
You don't stay with people you're not suited for, no matter how much you "hurt" them by breaking up with them.
Quoth McGoddess09 View PostLet me explain. Everything was fine at the beginning. He was so sure of going to school and we had talked about PDA and everything else. After a while, he started waffling about school and did everything I outlined.
A friend of mine got married to what she thought was a great guy a long time ago. 7 years into the marriage, he got bored and decided to try out heroin. Became a junkie. No job, no ambition, just drugs. Eventually, she had to divorce him 3 years later, as he had no interest in trying to reform and would refuse all rehab attempts. 10 years after the divorce, he's still the same way; no one has been able to get through to him.
While some might say it wasn't kind of her to divorce him in his 'time of need', she had three kids to take care of, one of whom is autistic. She tried rehab, tough love...sometimes you just have to write off a relationship as a loss.
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