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My uncle tends to do alot of things that land him in jail. All not his fault of course 
but as we all know cops love it when your sarcastic and rude to them for no reason, or when they;oh I don't know, Pick you up for violating some form of rules you were given after you got out. This has always upset my but it's sadly gotten so normal that when he phones from jail, it's a comment of "Uncle's in Jail again".
But Recently He's decided that Christianity will be his religion of choice. I don't mind Christians. I have friends and family who are believers in that religion and they know I don't like getting it shoved down my throat. To avoid fights or long discussions that could end in hurt feelings we all avoid the subject as then everyone is happy. He's been phoning and asking about our Belief in god. Myself and my mom have firmly told him that We do not believe in his higher power and that We have our own belief system but he won't relent.
Also I think He has a problem with my dating a girl. I love my girlfriend and have been dating her for a year now,heading onto the second around late may/early June. When He phones and I'm the one to answer when I'm on the phone with my girlfriend, I inform him of this. He know's that I'm dating this girl but he phoned a bit ago and when he asked what I was doing I told him I was getting ready for a date.
His Response? "Oh Really? Who is He?" It caused me to stare at the phone and then say "My Girlfriend, whom I've been dating for over a year". He then huffed with an oh and demanded to talk to someone else. He's also 'joked' when I've commented on being Bi that I'm just waiting for some hot guy to come and sweep me off my feet but no I'm an Equal Opportunity Sweepie/Sweeper
It's annoying as I'm not going to dump my girlfriend just to make him comfortable, especially when I truly love her + I hate, Despise to the Highest powers when people force their beliefs down my throat. I don't mind talking about them and discussing them as I'm an open person but the instant it get's to the point of feeling converted I change the subject as I rather not fight over what one believes in.
But my Uncle is a stubon man who when He believes he's right won't quit. He's made me cry when he came to the house and my brother left him with me.I was putting together flyers and I was mildly stressed out due to the fact I was new to it and was not used to the amount. He was whining and bugging me, like a child wanting attention, when I had firmly stated that I needed to get these done by a certain time and I was paying attention to them and not him.
Him not liking this eventually started to call me names and insult me in many ways (Calling me basically a cold bitch with comments of 'No wonder no one wants to be around you'). I'm getting progressively more and more upset ad I eventually started to argue and fight him one it. Well 'Mr. I'm Right, Your Wrong and your options don't matter cause I know everything about you' was not happy about that and got right in my face (With me holding a knife as I had to cut apart what was holding the flyers together so I could sort then) making me feel like I was in physical danger (And the knife wasn't a comforting factor as if got him, He's easily get me more) and I started to scream for him to leave me alone and get the hell out of the house. He stormed off with the reactions of 'I grace you with my presence and now your being rude' but left through got a few more rude words through the screen window.
It took me a good hour to calm down and he made it so that we were out later doing the flyers as he was not helping my productivity.
He wasn't allowed in the house for a good while and never if I was there alone.
but as we all know cops love it when your sarcastic and rude to them for no reason, or when they;oh I don't know, Pick you up for violating some form of rules you were given after you got out. This has always upset my but it's sadly gotten so normal that when he phones from jail, it's a comment of "Uncle's in Jail again".But Recently He's decided that Christianity will be his religion of choice. I don't mind Christians. I have friends and family who are believers in that religion and they know I don't like getting it shoved down my throat. To avoid fights or long discussions that could end in hurt feelings we all avoid the subject as then everyone is happy. He's been phoning and asking about our Belief in god. Myself and my mom have firmly told him that We do not believe in his higher power and that We have our own belief system but he won't relent.
Also I think He has a problem with my dating a girl. I love my girlfriend and have been dating her for a year now,heading onto the second around late may/early June. When He phones and I'm the one to answer when I'm on the phone with my girlfriend, I inform him of this. He know's that I'm dating this girl but he phoned a bit ago and when he asked what I was doing I told him I was getting ready for a date.
His Response? "Oh Really? Who is He?" It caused me to stare at the phone and then say "My Girlfriend, whom I've been dating for over a year". He then huffed with an oh and demanded to talk to someone else. He's also 'joked' when I've commented on being Bi that I'm just waiting for some hot guy to come and sweep me off my feet but no I'm an Equal Opportunity Sweepie/Sweeper
It's annoying as I'm not going to dump my girlfriend just to make him comfortable, especially when I truly love her + I hate, Despise to the Highest powers when people force their beliefs down my throat. I don't mind talking about them and discussing them as I'm an open person but the instant it get's to the point of feeling converted I change the subject as I rather not fight over what one believes in.
But my Uncle is a stubon man who when He believes he's right won't quit. He's made me cry when he came to the house and my brother left him with me.I was putting together flyers and I was mildly stressed out due to the fact I was new to it and was not used to the amount. He was whining and bugging me, like a child wanting attention, when I had firmly stated that I needed to get these done by a certain time and I was paying attention to them and not him.
Him not liking this eventually started to call me names and insult me in many ways (Calling me basically a cold bitch with comments of 'No wonder no one wants to be around you'). I'm getting progressively more and more upset ad I eventually started to argue and fight him one it. Well 'Mr. I'm Right, Your Wrong and your options don't matter cause I know everything about you' was not happy about that and got right in my face (With me holding a knife as I had to cut apart what was holding the flyers together so I could sort then) making me feel like I was in physical danger (And the knife wasn't a comforting factor as if got him, He's easily get me more) and I started to scream for him to leave me alone and get the hell out of the house. He stormed off with the reactions of 'I grace you with my presence and now your being rude' but left through got a few more rude words through the screen window.
It took me a good hour to calm down and he made it so that we were out later doing the flyers as he was not helping my productivity.
He wasn't allowed in the house for a good while and never if I was there alone.
Why? Well, he didn't get the phone call about the accident; he didn't have to deal with another aunt flipping out because her kid was in the car with Grandma; he didn't have to deal with my mother's tears; he didn't see the destroyed car at the body shop, etc. He ignored all of that. At least my aunt put him in his place. That is, she went off 
I don't have a problem with him personally, but I do have a problem with some of the things he does. He's really not a bad guy, and isn't too bad...if you get some liquor in him 
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