Ok so. My older sis is pregnant and I'm not much interested.
Weird or not weird?
My brother thinks it's weird, to put it lightly. Yesterday he yelled and picked a fight with meabout it.
So I ask you all, when your sibling was pregnant were you calling her everyday, gushing about it, saying oh how great!!!!!!, giving advice etc etc.
I mean I ask her how she's doing, not everyday, like once a week or so. I can't really give advice because I never had children (shudder) I don't really like kids. Nice ones are ok, but those are rare in my exp.
And giving birth is ummmm. Ouch, imho.
But anyway. Bro is furious. He went on and on about how she cries and cries about the baby, and about her medical problems. But everytime I go visit her she looks fine. And when I ask her how's she, she says fine.
I'm not one to prod and poke, so I just say great. I understand that bro is worried, but I'm not. Women have been giving birth since time began. It's no big deal, I think, especially with today's modern technology.
I told bro not to worried and he just got even angrier, and accused me of being an uncaring sister. That was insulting, so I told him firmly that he shouldn't take that tone with me, and he better watch it.
If I was the one pregnant and my sis acted like I do, checking up every once in awhile, I wouldn't mine, truthfully. My guess is that it's just her hormones that's making her cry.
So what do you think? Am I being heartless? How did you all act?
Weird or not weird?
My brother thinks it's weird, to put it lightly. Yesterday he yelled and picked a fight with meabout it.
So I ask you all, when your sibling was pregnant were you calling her everyday, gushing about it, saying oh how great!!!!!!, giving advice etc etc.
I mean I ask her how she's doing, not everyday, like once a week or so. I can't really give advice because I never had children (shudder) I don't really like kids. Nice ones are ok, but those are rare in my exp.
And giving birth is ummmm. Ouch, imho.
But anyway. Bro is furious. He went on and on about how she cries and cries about the baby, and about her medical problems. But everytime I go visit her she looks fine. And when I ask her how's she, she says fine.
I'm not one to prod and poke, so I just say great. I understand that bro is worried, but I'm not. Women have been giving birth since time began. It's no big deal, I think, especially with today's modern technology.
I told bro not to worried and he just got even angrier, and accused me of being an uncaring sister. That was insulting, so I told him firmly that he shouldn't take that tone with me, and he better watch it.
If I was the one pregnant and my sis acted like I do, checking up every once in awhile, I wouldn't mine, truthfully. My guess is that it's just her hormones that's making her cry.
So what do you think? Am I being heartless? How did you all act?
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