I dunno. From the sound of it, to me, it does seem like she was trying to 'let him down easy' by not setting a specific date when she originally asked him and then lying to him at the event in Montreal. "Keeping options open" or not, if she were hanging out with another guy, she should have said so.
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Its still pretty possive of you. How do you know she didn't agree to a date with the first guy first, and didn't know what day that was going to be? Or that she agreed to your date first then that guy. A girl saying sure to a dinner is not automatic barred from future dates period/only excusive with you. Its just a dinner. A way to get to know you.
I'm not there, and my luck with woman, well, sucks, but even I know a few simple things about dating. Like the fact a woman isn't yours just because she said yes to a date with you later.
On the otherside, then yeah, she might just be getting a free dinner out of you. So what? You think your the first and only human that will ever happen to? But even if she is planning on that now, that doesn't mean no matter what you do during said dinner, you cannot intrest her enough to get to a second date, third date, until that you are in fact in a relationship.Military Spouse Support.
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Quoth Plaidman View PostAlso, do not order for her. That bad.
Quoth taurinejunkie View PostI think you guys didn't understand the problem properly.
Quoth taurinejunkie View PostShe said "yes" to the date; the Montreal incident implies that she actually isn't interested, and that her "yes" is really just a delayed "no" and a chance to score a free meal.
You are assuming that her spending time with the other guy in Montreal means she is not interested in you. You don't know that to be true, unless she told you that specifically and we have just missed that.
Quoth AdminAssistant View PostFrom the sound of it, to me, it does seem like she was trying to 'let him down easy' by not setting a specific date when she originally asked him and then lying to him at the event in Montreal.
Quoth AdminAssistant View Post"Keeping options open" or not, if she were hanging out with another guy, she should have said so.
While I have not dated multiple women at the same time, the few times I have, I had no problem not telling the one about the other. Why? I wasn't exclusive with either one, nor they with me. Had they asked me about other women, I would have certainly told them, but I did not feel at all obligated to volunteer that information. I don't lie to the women I date, but that doesn't mean I have to tell them everything up front.
And what is good for the gander is definitely good for the goose. After all, I never asked those girls if they were dating other men or not....I was seeing where things would go, as were they. And honestly, no one had a problem with it.
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