As most of you know, I work in a nightclub as a dancer. We have to wear tight, kind of skimpy clothing. It's not slutty, but you need a good body to look good in it, cause it shows all your flaws (eek!)
I have been putting on weight recently. Not alot, but enough to notice a difference when I'm wearing my work stuff. My manager has noticed, and he TOLD ME that he's noticed, and that I need to do something about it. He wasn't very subtle about it either, just straight out said
"Those clothes are getting a bit tight on ya aren't they?"
I was embarassed, and then I started feeling really self conscious.
It's not like he's fired me over it, but the fact that he brought it up makes me a bit nervous. I don't like someone scrutinising my body fat. I'm not fat, but i'm up against skinny girls who make me feel inadequete. I will never be really skinny, it's not my natural body shape.
Does anyone else think I should just quit and tell him to shove it?
Or should I go starve myself and stay employed?
I have been putting on weight recently. Not alot, but enough to notice a difference when I'm wearing my work stuff. My manager has noticed, and he TOLD ME that he's noticed, and that I need to do something about it. He wasn't very subtle about it either, just straight out said
"Those clothes are getting a bit tight on ya aren't they?"
I was embarassed, and then I started feeling really self conscious.
It's not like he's fired me over it, but the fact that he brought it up makes me a bit nervous. I don't like someone scrutinising my body fat. I'm not fat, but i'm up against skinny girls who make me feel inadequete. I will never be really skinny, it's not my natural body shape.
Does anyone else think I should just quit and tell him to shove it?
Or should I go starve myself and stay employed?
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