My husband and I host a gaming day every Sunday for a group of friends of ours. Usually we play D&D or another tabletop RPG, but sometimes we play board games or video games. I always make food for everyone, too, usually some kind of soup or casserole for lunch that feeds a crowd, and cookies or similar for dessert.
I always ask everyone to bring something to pass, as well. I don't care what. I always email everyone and let them know what I'm planning on making and will tell them if I want something specific to go with it (for example, if I make chili, I'll ask for someone to bring cheese and sour cream and crackers.) Otherwise I leave it up to them, usually everyone brings either chips and dip or some other snacky thing, or soda.
Except one guy, K.
I've talked about K in the past. He's already annoyed me for other reasons. For one thing, he ALWAYS shows up late. And I don't mean just a little late. We always meet at noon. We're lucky if K shows up at 1:30. It's usually closer to 2:00 or after. If we're playing a tabletop RPG, this means we usually have to wait for him to start. And one of our other players has a study group at 5 so he can only play till 4:30 or so. K is also a pretty poor roleplayer. He likes to dungeon crawl, but he doesn't really know how to actually role play.
Lately (and I mean the last 6 months or so) he hasn't brought anything to pass, ever. He always brings stuff for HIMSELF, like a couple of sodas or a small bag of chips. But he never brings anything for the group. He also eats more than anyone else in the group, usually having seconds or thirds of whatever I make.
Today really cheesed me off. My husband and I have dinner plans tonight for Valentine's Day, so I decided I wasn't going to make a full meal like I usually do. Instead, I just made a batch of BBQ chicken wings and a batch of cookies. I specifically told the guys, TWICE, in my emails that I wasn't really making lunch, I was only making snacks, so they should bring their own food or eat lunch before coming over.
K showed up at about 1:55, as per usual. He proceeded to eat about 3/4 of the chicken wings (I made around 24 or 26; my husband and I had 2 each, our other friend didn't have any, and there are 4 left.), half the cookies, and several handfuls of pretzels that he found on our counter, which we didn't even offer him. He just grabbed the bag and started munching. He also asked what I had cooking in the crockpot (homemade applesauce) and if he could have any of that! (No, because it's not done yet.)
I'm really sick and tired of him, period. I wish there was a way we could kick him out of the group, but I'm too nice and he's a friend/co-worker of my husband's so I don't want to be mean. My husband is going to tell him that he has to either bring something every week, or contribute a couple bucks if he wants to partake in the food I make.
I always ask everyone to bring something to pass, as well. I don't care what. I always email everyone and let them know what I'm planning on making and will tell them if I want something specific to go with it (for example, if I make chili, I'll ask for someone to bring cheese and sour cream and crackers.) Otherwise I leave it up to them, usually everyone brings either chips and dip or some other snacky thing, or soda.
Except one guy, K.
I've talked about K in the past. He's already annoyed me for other reasons. For one thing, he ALWAYS shows up late. And I don't mean just a little late. We always meet at noon. We're lucky if K shows up at 1:30. It's usually closer to 2:00 or after. If we're playing a tabletop RPG, this means we usually have to wait for him to start. And one of our other players has a study group at 5 so he can only play till 4:30 or so. K is also a pretty poor roleplayer. He likes to dungeon crawl, but he doesn't really know how to actually role play.
Lately (and I mean the last 6 months or so) he hasn't brought anything to pass, ever. He always brings stuff for HIMSELF, like a couple of sodas or a small bag of chips. But he never brings anything for the group. He also eats more than anyone else in the group, usually having seconds or thirds of whatever I make.
Today really cheesed me off. My husband and I have dinner plans tonight for Valentine's Day, so I decided I wasn't going to make a full meal like I usually do. Instead, I just made a batch of BBQ chicken wings and a batch of cookies. I specifically told the guys, TWICE, in my emails that I wasn't really making lunch, I was only making snacks, so they should bring their own food or eat lunch before coming over.
K showed up at about 1:55, as per usual. He proceeded to eat about 3/4 of the chicken wings (I made around 24 or 26; my husband and I had 2 each, our other friend didn't have any, and there are 4 left.), half the cookies, and several handfuls of pretzels that he found on our counter, which we didn't even offer him. He just grabbed the bag and started munching. He also asked what I had cooking in the crockpot (homemade applesauce) and if he could have any of that! (No, because it's not done yet.)
I'm really sick and tired of him, period. I wish there was a way we could kick him out of the group, but I'm too nice and he's a friend/co-worker of my husband's so I don't want to be mean. My husband is going to tell him that he has to either bring something every week, or contribute a couple bucks if he wants to partake in the food I make.
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