Hey, I was a sucky parent once. All parents make mistakes.
There was a haunted house in our town and everyone said I should take my son. I'm trying to remember how old he was ... probably around 7 or 8. I figured it would be pretty cheezy and didn't realize how frightening it would be for the little guy. He had too much imagination. But so many other people said they'd taken their kids and their kids loved it....
He was excited about going, but he kind of lost his nerve while we were in line and wanted to back out. I should have listened to him. But I'd already been standing in line half an hour and I didn't want to just give up, so I encouraged him to go on in.
What a mistake! He was terrified. I had to pick him up and carry him. He was hiding is face in my shoulder and begging "get me out of here." I I wanted to walk right out, but there was no exit. I looked, but there was now way to leave in the middle and no way to get back through the line which was clogged with people to get out the entrance. I had no choice but to go through to the end.
But this is what made me angry: I know I made a mistake bringing him in there, but it should have been obvious that he was terrified. People dressed up as horrible ghouls were still jumping out at us and screeching, and even coming up and tapping him on the arm to make him look up. Get a clue people! When a child is hiding his eyes, crying, and begging to get out HE IS NOT HAVING FUN. LEAVE HIM ALONE!
Never did that again. I did learn from my mistake and was more careful about scary movies and such in the future.
Later that same night we went to an Enchanted Forest, which was delightful, so at least he had some fun to balance out his terror.
There was a haunted house in our town and everyone said I should take my son. I'm trying to remember how old he was ... probably around 7 or 8. I figured it would be pretty cheezy and didn't realize how frightening it would be for the little guy. He had too much imagination. But so many other people said they'd taken their kids and their kids loved it....
He was excited about going, but he kind of lost his nerve while we were in line and wanted to back out. I should have listened to him. But I'd already been standing in line half an hour and I didn't want to just give up, so I encouraged him to go on in.
What a mistake! He was terrified. I had to pick him up and carry him. He was hiding is face in my shoulder and begging "get me out of here." I I wanted to walk right out, but there was no exit. I looked, but there was now way to leave in the middle and no way to get back through the line which was clogged with people to get out the entrance. I had no choice but to go through to the end.
But this is what made me angry: I know I made a mistake bringing him in there, but it should have been obvious that he was terrified. People dressed up as horrible ghouls were still jumping out at us and screeching, and even coming up and tapping him on the arm to make him look up. Get a clue people! When a child is hiding his eyes, crying, and begging to get out HE IS NOT HAVING FUN. LEAVE HIM ALONE!
Never did that again. I did learn from my mistake and was more careful about scary movies and such in the future.
Later that same night we went to an Enchanted Forest, which was delightful, so at least he had some fun to balance out his terror.
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