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  • I am, apparently, evil. Somehow, this doesn't worry me...

    A woman walked into the library yesterday afternoon with her daughter(who looked about 10-11 years old), and asked to use the phone...I confirmed that they were just wanting to call for a ride, got the cordless, and asked the mother what number(we try not to let the patrons dial, due to prior phone abuse)...she said something to the effect of "I need to call several numbers, but don't worry, they're all local," grabbed the phone, and went off to a nearby table.

    Meanwhile, the child spotted some coloring sheets, and asked if we had crayons she could use...so I get out the big bag o' crayons and set it on the desk in front of her...she looks at it, then grabs for the open(small) box of Crayolas that I was using(which I keep tucked away in a desk drawer when not in use, and which are NOT to be given to the childrens, because I use 'em for displays and don't want 'em getting broken, peeled for no reason, etc). So I move them out of reach and explain that that box is for library use, but that she's welcome to use the (hundred or so) crayons in the bag. she scribbles for a few seconds, then leaves the crayons, balls up the coloring sheet, and wanders off.

    A couple of minutes later, the little girl comes back and asks to use a computer...I asked if she wanted one of the ones in the children's area(which don't have internet, just games and MS Office), and she says "No! One with internet!" I asked how old she was, she said 13, I told her her mother would have to sit with her(they have to be 14+ to sit by themselves when online)..."She's sitting right there." "She has to sit right next to you at the computer the whole time you're on it." "She will, she will"(I highly doubted it, because her mother was supposedly trying to get a ride so they could leave asap). I told her I'd need to see her card and her mom's card, both...first she tried to give me her card number, then got very huffy when I insisted on seeing the actual card(as of October 1, they MUST have their card with them to use the internet) and snapped at me that I should be able to "just find me on that computer right there!" When I didn't give in, she wandered off again...and less than a minute later had plopped down in front of a logged-into computer whose user had gone to the lobby to answer a phone call...so I logged her out from the desk, with a message saying that she wasn't the one assigned to that computer, and right as it was logging out, the lady who'd been on there came back(fortunately one of my regulars, and someone who likes me), and we had to sign her back in. At which point the little girl came up to the desk and started muttering about me being evil, and I ignored her and kept coloring my bulletin-board stuff and trying not to laugh at her. Meanwhile, the reference assistant was having to all but wrestle the phone away from the mother, because she was just sitting there yakking away and had long since asked someone to come get them.

    I found out later that the same little girl had been in earlier, while I was at lunch, and had already attempted to use the internet and had been told the rules then, too.

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    You gotta love ppl who enjoy taking advantage of others. Good for you for not taking their crap.
    The universe is mostly empty space, and so is your job. ~Dilbert

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    • #3
      Take it as a complement. You have thwarted the heroine, who clearly wasn't just a bratty little girl, and may have just gotten yourself an arch nemesis.

      Evil. Is that really the best she could come up with?

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      • #4
        Phone?

        I don't understand why you let the mom take the phone like that unless your system blocks long distance calls.

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        • #5
          I wonder how many generations of suckiness there have been in this family?
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          • #6
            Quoth earl colby pottinger View Post
            I don't understand why you let the mom take the phone like that unless your system blocks long distance calls.
            Surprise, mostly...like I said, she kinda snatched it out of my hand and marched off(also a nono). Standard procedure is, they tell us the number, we dial it, and they stand next to the desk for the duration of their call. Generally, this is not a problem, so we're not really prepared for the outright demanding/"entitled" ones who show up every so often, and as I mentioned, the reference assistant had to literally wrestle the phone out of the woman's hands. She was close enough(especially with the acoustics we've got) for us both to hear her side of the conversation, and she was in fact calling for a ride from someone who(it sounded like) was fairly close by...she was just rude about it, and then proceeded to tie the line up indefinitely with her chattering, while ignoring her child's (mis)behavior.

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            • #7
              I probably would have unplugged the base unit. But that's just me.
              Labor boards have info on local laws for free
              HR believes the first person in the door
              Learn how to go over whackamole bosses' heads safely
              Document everything
              CS proves Dunning-Kruger effect

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              • #8
                Quoth wagegoth View Post
                I probably would have unplugged the base unit. But that's just me.
                That's what I had to do when I worked at the video game store at a strip mall.
                Sooo many kids coming up asking to use it, and sitting on it forever.
                Pit bull-

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                • #9
                  POUNCE DA NEWB...

                  sorry. wrong board..

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                  • #10
                    That's word corded phones are for.
                    "Always stand near the door." -- Doctor Who

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                    • #11
                      There was an extra phone in my office that was available for other people to use in emergencies. It was starting to be abused however, and I tried unplugging it to discourage that. The last straw was when I heard (honey, you're only 5 feet away from me & no, I'm not deaf) one of the 'emergencies' was a conversation with her BF, though she told her supervisor it was her mom. At that point, the phone was both unplugged and put away.

                      That phone was a privilege, not a right. It was only in place to begin with because this location is so cell phone unfriendly.

                      There was an incident when I worked at the craft store, that as I was helping the mom get some supplies, her younger child was playing with a dowel, in such a way that I feared that it would break. As I talked with the mom about what she needed for her project, best options and so forth, it turned out that she did not need the dowel. But I wasn't going to snatch it out of the child's hands, maybe she wasn't going to break it (hey, I've been surprised before).

                      As soon as the kid let go though, it was swiftly put it out of reach 'to be put back on the shelf'. Kid pouted at me, "I hate you." I was somewhat surprised so the best response I could come up with was "Your loss."

                      Mom's reaction? Horror that her child would say something like that & immediate remonstrances.
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