Let me start by saying that I truly despise people who abuse the relay system, there is a special place in hell for them.
Having said that, there are a few things that every deaf person knows about relay abuse. Every deaf person (with an IQ over 2) knows that relay abuse happens and that because of that many people are weary of using the relay system. So most of them realize, that while it is not their fault, if they are going to be doing business with people on craigslist there best bet is to contact by email first and after establishing communication inform the person that they are deaf and that they will be placing a relay call. If they are going to be going to a local business they know that it is best to find out the places address and go in person the first time.
So when you call and the person says they don't want to take a relay call, the correct response to someone saying that they have had too many cases of fraud with the system is to ask how else they may contact them in a more suitable way... NOT bitch that you are deaf you have to use relay. No one believes you, least of all your relay operator... we will relay the message because we are required to, but don't expect us to be convincing.
Also as a side note to the most recent scammer that I dealt with... when trying to scam someone through the relay system, make sure you are not infact calling an employee of the relay company you are using... they are trained to recognize scam and how to lead you into incriminating yourself.
Having said that, there are a few things that every deaf person knows about relay abuse. Every deaf person (with an IQ over 2) knows that relay abuse happens and that because of that many people are weary of using the relay system. So most of them realize, that while it is not their fault, if they are going to be doing business with people on craigslist there best bet is to contact by email first and after establishing communication inform the person that they are deaf and that they will be placing a relay call. If they are going to be going to a local business they know that it is best to find out the places address and go in person the first time.
So when you call and the person says they don't want to take a relay call, the correct response to someone saying that they have had too many cases of fraud with the system is to ask how else they may contact them in a more suitable way... NOT bitch that you are deaf you have to use relay. No one believes you, least of all your relay operator... we will relay the message because we are required to, but don't expect us to be convincing.
Also as a side note to the most recent scammer that I dealt with... when trying to scam someone through the relay system, make sure you are not infact calling an employee of the relay company you are using... they are trained to recognize scam and how to lead you into incriminating yourself.
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