The Hateful Sports Car Driver

[superhotelworker]

I wonder if the SCD watches Torchwood: John Barrowman is gay and acts like a real man.

Don't care if the man's gay, he can sing and act and I'd get him drunk so he'd never know. LOL

And REALLY? Someone said that about JR (Former desk clerk here and my best friend who now manages at another property in our company). Granted, he IS gay, but he is the most respectable, nice man. I wish more guys that went for girls acted like him (Really, the ones around here are mostly still in the say balls and laugh stage).

[DGoddessChardonnay]

Why do people even think it's okay to ask a total stranger such a question anyways?

If that had been me acting like that rude guy in the OP in front of my mother, she'd have slapped my head clean off my shoulders and I'd STILL be chasing it down the street now.

I guess the best answer for such a question (that wouldn't get you in trouble):

"I really wouldn't know, Sir/Ma'am" and leave it at that.

Sounds like the best option to me at least.

[Sapphire Silk]

Yeah, and so is Gandalf.

BTW, the character Dumbledor (not the actors who played him) was written as gay himself. Who would say the second most powerful wizard in the world wasn't manly?

Don't buy it. Nothing in the Potter series hints at a gay relationship. If JK wanted Dumbledore to be gay, she should have come out and said so in the books.

[Kristev]

She actually did say Dumbledor was gay, but in an interview, not in a book. She felt it rather inappropriate to directly mention, because the books were geared for children.

[Imogene]

BTW, the character Dumbledor (not the actors who played him) was written as gay himself. Who would say the second most powerful wizard in the world wasn't manly?

It's supposedly in the books, at least, in the very last book, there's a throwaway line about Dumbledore regretting having to kill Grindelwald to take possession of the Elder Wand... also, 'second' most powerful? There are only two other wizards I can think of who might give Dumbledore a run for his money... Voldemort, and Harry, and Dumbledore handily beats Voldemort every time they face off...

[El Pollo Guerrera]

Rob Halford, lead singer of Judas Priest...

[Chromatix]

But you have to remember that in those duels, Dumbledore had the advantage of the Elder Wand, though this wasn't explicitly stated. He was certainly a *skilled* wizard, but not necessarily the most inherently powerful around. Powerful enough to defeat Grindlewald with that same disadvantage, though.

Harry also shows some signs of great power, but he still doesn't utterly outclass his peers. He's just very focused on staying alive.

[Can I Help Your A$$?]

Leaky Cauldron interview in which JK reveals Dumbledore's sexuality

Anyway, there's nothing not manly about being a femme-acting gay guy. It's brave to be who you are. And that's all I have to say about that. People who insist men "act manly" are a little too interested in the subject, imho.

[Jay 2K Winger]

It's supposedly in the books, at least, in the very last book, there's a throwaway line about Dumbledore regretting having to kill Grindelwald to take possession of the Elder Wand... also, 'second' most powerful? There are only two other wizards I can think of who might give Dumbledore a run for his money... Voldemort, and Harry, and Dumbledore handily beats Voldemort every time they face off...

IIRC, the Elder Wand's ownership transfers when its current holder is "defeated," which doesn't always mean killed. Dumbledore didn't kill Grindelwald, but he regretted that their relationship fell apart.

[chainedbarista]

yes! rob halford is da bomb!

[Andara Bledin]

Also, according to Wikipedia, David Yost (Billy from Mighty Morphin Power Rangers) and George Takei are gay (that's news to me-I knew about the others).

My ex was in a weekend acting camp thing that David Yost was also in, and when MMPR first started in the US he commented about having met him and that he kind of had an attitude and that he was gay. Apparently, it's obvious when he's just being himself.

She actually did say Dumbledor was gay, but in an interview, not in a book. She felt it rather inappropriate to directly mention, because the books were geared for children.

She did consider it, though, and there are a couple of bits in the books that vaguely allude to it.

^-.-^

[Peppergirl]

...because someone's presumed sexuality is SOOO important to how they ring up and bag groceries. /end sarcasm

[RootedPhoenix]

If gay men aren't real men, the what the crap are they then? Imaginary? Are they gerbils? Starfish?

...send 'em to school and they eat the books...

[chainedbarista]

well, if they have the mindset and identify themselves as a man, then they are men.

manly men, well, there are differing versions of those, so...

[Ironclad Alibi]

If gay men aren't real men, the what the crap are they then?

... manly men ...

We're men, We're men in tights
We roam around the forest looking for fights

We're men, We're men in tights
We rob from the rich and give to the poor. That's right!
We may look like sissies, But watch what you say, Or else we'll put out your lights

We're men, We're men in tights
Always on guard, Defending the people's rights

We're men, Manly men!, We're men in tights
Yes! We roam around the forest looking for fights

We're men, We're men in tights
We rob from the rich and give to the poor, That's right!
We may look like pansies, But don't get us wrong, Or else we'll put out your lights

We're men, We're men in tights, *Tight tights*
Always on guard, Defending the people's rights
When you're in a fix, Just call for the men in tights

We're butch!