I Have Kids, So I Can Be An Entitled Assmonkey

[dilutedvoice]

Agreed, I now want to visit Taco Bell and be the most pleasant customer ever. Too bad my town has none .

[lineswine]

Here, the all-purpose "mate" is used for guys, or "love" for women.
Nametags make little difference generally, especially if you're only there for a short time/not got a great deal to say.