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  • Question about tips and management....

    So, having come to out of my drunken coma, I was watching an episode of Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares. Without bothering with most of the details of the particular episode, I saw something on it that was shocking to me. Specifically, the front of the house manager of the restaurant in question was taking HALF of the servers' tips, and felt perfectly justified in doing so.

    Now, I have been doing this restaurant thing for a long time now (20+ years) and have worked in innumerable establishments. In all that time, not only have I never seen a manager taking a portion or percentage of server tips, I have actually seen the opposite, where managers felt or a policy was in place that stated that management COULDN'T accept tips, the exception being when a manager also worked on the floor or behind the bar, but that was only for that shift and their particular customers. Not only that, but even if they helped out on the floor during a management shift, they would not take the tips, even if they took a table from beginning to end, either giving the tip to the server whose section it was or divvying it up among the servers on shift at the time.

    So my question is this: has anyone here ever worked in a place where management, either singly or as a group, took a percentage of server tips, not for distribution among support staff (bussers, food runners, barbacks, etc.), but for themselves personally? What was the percentage? How did the servers feel about it? And how in the flying ferret fart did they justify such actions?

    Just curious. Still blown away by the very idea.

    "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
    Still A Customer."


  • #2
    This practice is (I understand) now unlawful within the UK.

    However, as you (Jester) often state, I reserve the right to be horrifically, embarrasinly wrong on this and any other matter!
    A PSA, if I may, as well as another.

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    • #3
      I saw that episode and felt like punching the manager.

      But I've never had that experience in the few places I've worked. I think I would've laughed in the manager's face and walked out.
      If you don't like my attitude, talk to the manager!!! Oh, wait, that would be me!!

      Yes, I'm the manager. I'm also known as "the brick wall".

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      • #4
        I need to watch that show more often, I feel like it would be right up my alley

        I have NEVER heard of such a thing. That's why managers make more by the hour (or a salary). I've worked in various places, and every once in a while a manager would take a table when it was busy and keep THAT tip, but that's it. It's just proper restaurant etiquette to me.

        I've tried to tip out my managers sometimes for helping me on a particularly busy shift and I was always turned down. Maybe this manager makes $3 an hour like everyone else? *shrug*
        "If you are planning not to tip, please let your server know before ordering so they can decide whether or not to wait on you" - from an advice column I read some time ago

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        • #5
          At the truck stop, the one manager with the least seniority had to take a serving shift when there were too many call-ins or on super busy days like Mother's Day.

          And that was the only time management could take tips. They were her own tips she got from serving.

          Otherwise, we were supposed to tip hosts, but if they ever begged me for it or asked for extra money, I wouldn't do it.
          You really need to see a neurologist. - Wagegoth

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          • #6
            A manager once helped me set up an ginormous delivery at the Olive Garden and I felt it was only fair to share my tip with her, since she'd helped.

            She refused, saying it was illegal for her to take tips since she was not paid server's wages, and her pay scale did not include tips. So yeah, based on that conversation, I'm going with "manager on Ramsey's show was a Major Dick and a thief."

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            • #7
              He certainly was a dick. His very weak justification for taking half their tips was that he had schmoozed the guests so effectively. These were not HIS tables, mind you, but those of the serving staff. Perhaps Ramsay turned him around, because at the end of the episode they check back in with the restaurant two months later and everything seems to be going great.....but yeah, the dude was a drip. Why they let him get away with that shit is beyond me.

              I HAVE heard of other instances of managers getting a portion of the tipouts (not their own tips from serving or bar shifts, but an actual percentage of each server's tipouts, like a busser might get), and was just wondering if anyone here has experienced it. Good to see that so far, no one here has.

              "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
              Still A Customer."

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              • #8
                I just find the whole idea of managment working with peeons amazing, because my boss has NO idea how to run any of the machines or equipment at work, and he's never made any attempt to try. He was only trained to supervise. So if he asks what's wrong with a machine, and gets an answer, he obviously has no idea what it means.

                My old boss knew how to run some of the machines. There are bosses at my work who started at the bottom, worked their way up, and know everything, but in recent times, most bosses are hired from outside the company and it's not mandatory that they learn the equipment.
                You really need to see a neurologist. - Wagegoth

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                • #9
                  check out this link:

                  http://consumerist.com/380248/philad...for-themselves

                  I wonder if it's something like this? (not that this soty seems appropriate either)!
                  Standing on the moon With nothing else to do A lovely view of heaven But I'd rather be with you

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                  • #10
                    Related to that, I found this article about a restaurant in NYC accused of having a policy that gave managers a portion of server tips. If the accusations were proven, it would mean that the restaurant was violating state law, as such a practice is illegal in New York.

                    Perhaps the most nauseating thing I read in it was this: "[S]he noticed that floor managers sometimes received more in tips than she received....She said the managers would meet weekly to decide how much in tips employees would get."

                    "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
                    Still A Customer."

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                    • #11
                      More a GWC thread. moved.

                      Rapscallion

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                      • #12
                        Quoth blas87 View Post
                        I just find the whole idea of managment working with peeons amazing, because my boss has NO idea how to run any of the machines or equipment at work,
                        When I worked in management, managers were just another floor worker who dealt with day to day problems, and did extra paperwork. Upper management kept us consistently understaffed, to the point where during slow times, there was only just a manager on. I'd take orders at the registers, go back and make their food, and bring it out when finished. made for some rough days. Before I was a manager, I could hold any position there. It depends on the company, but more importantly, it depends on the person.

                        Anyways, my point is that I often got tips from tables, running the bar, and cashing out lottery. If it was a large tip, I'd share, but for the most part they were tips I would keep because I earned them. But we all made about the same. I think I made about 25 cents more an hour then the workers (can you see one of the reasons I quit?), so I wasn't being paid more for not making tips.

                        Gah. Typing this out reminded me how glad I was when I quit that job.
                        Things just get so crazy living life gets hard to do. I would gladly hit the road, get up and go if I knew,that someday it would bring me back to you.

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                        • #13
                          Hey Jester, which episode/place was this? I was trying to find it on the FOX on Demand site and there are quite a few to go through.

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                          • #14
                            I used to have a manager who no one trusted to clean or go near their tables as their tips left on the table by customers would often disappear. She's gone now thankfully, but when she was there it was a race to the table if a customer or coworker told you there was a tip on the table.

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                            • #15
                              Also, the IRS assumes that servers are making a certain amount of money in tips. California does not have a lower minimum wage for servers, but we still tip, and the IRS expects it.

                              Jester, where was the restaurant located? If it were in New York or California, then the manager's taking the tips would be illegal.
                              Labor boards have info on local laws for free
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                              Document everything
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