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  • What, My Money Isn't Good Enough For You??

    This is a sucky customer service sighting, so if it's in the wrong spot, I'm sorry.

    My boyfriend and I are getting engaged soon. I don't know exactally when, as he wants to surprise me, but we've been looking at rings lately (so he can surprise me with something I like). We've been to a few jewelry stores, from cheap mall chains to a couple of real jewelry stores. Normally a sales person pounces on us within 30 seconds of us entering, correctly pegging us as engagement ring shoppers.

    Not so this weekend! We entered a jewelry store, were greeted from across the store with a "Hello" and were then ignored. The engagement rings were all laid out where you could touch them, so I guess the store wanted to encourge more of a self-service model. It was not busy (more employees than shoppers!), and there were several employees who didn't seem to be doing anything. We had questions about the rings, and asked one employee about it. She told us to just look at the sticker on the ring, and then she walked across the room! When I asked another employee some questions about a ring, she half answered my questions and then also walked away from us.

    At this point, it was rather clear that either the employees hated people, or that we were not welcome in the store for whatever reason. We left, both livid about the treatment. We weren't scruffy looking--I was even in a skirt! I'm not a sucky customer; I will put up with a lot before I complain, but this seemed crazy. Guess my money isn't good enough for them or something.

    Sorry for the longish-ness of this, but I still can't believe that these employees did this. How am I going to buy something if I can't even figure out what metal it is made of?

  • #2
    Congrats on the upcoming engagement!

    I'm sorry about your poor experience, though. I say don't let it bother you, as there are plenty of other places to get a nice engagement ring, although if I had been in your shoes, I probably would've been really upset, too. Was there a manager or supervisor or anyone else you could've asked for?

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    • #3
      let someone higher up at the store know how you were treated.
      Honestly.... the image of that in my head made me go "AWESOME!"..... and then I remembered I am terribly strange.-Red dazes

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      • #4
        Sounds like they had a full-of-themselves attitude or felt they were too good to wait on mere mortals. Sad when they get like this, seems to happen in some of the more upscale places, though I've seen 50-50; depends on the people I guess. Maybe look online for designs and metals, then you'll have an idea when you go to the store?
        "If anyone wants this old box containing the broken bits of my former faith in humanity, I'll take your best offer now. You may be able to salvage a few of em' for parts..... " - Quote by Argabarga

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        • #5
          The funny thing about this store is that it was recommended as a friendly, not super expensive place. The prices were between mall chains and a jeweler. I'm not sure about the quality for the price, though--something I tried to ask!!

          I didn't see a manager, but I knew that if I saw one I would probably start acting like a SC, and that would have made everything worse.

          I think my boyfriend will be going to the real jeweler we went to a few weeks ago. They were very interested in our business

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          • #6
            It's ridiculous that any business would seem to have the "you're not good enough for us" attitude today, when everyone is screaming about the economy. Jewelry is not exactly a necessity for most people, so you'd think they'd be extremely eager for your business.

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            • #7
              A little tip for jewelry shopping. Take a loupe with you. Use it to look at the diamonds in the rings. In the good stores, they will start showing you the good stuff. In the crappy stores, they'll chase you out. Both have happened to my wife.

              To find a good price, check out the gem and jewelry shows in your area.
              Last edited by Ironclad Alibi; 08-05-2009, 04:27 AM. Reason: Added show info.
              "I don't have to be petty. The Universe does that for me."

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              • #8
                The girl and I are starting to look at rings too. Thankfully we haven't had any bad experiences yet, not that we've been to many places. I'm just worried because I keep hearing stories about jewelers that push diamond rings. I personally have an aversion to buying a ring where a diamond is the primary stone (for various ethical reasons - mainly I despise the idea that if he "doesn't get you a diamond, he doesn't love you". thanks a lot DeBeers), and the girl has agreed that a sapphire stone is better. I'd prefer to have no diamonds in the ring, but I'm ok with it if they're accents. But now she's starting to waver on that a bit and starting to think she wants a diamond and I don't want a jeweler pushing it more.

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                • #9
                  Quoth trunks2k View Post
                  I'm just worried because I keep hearing stories about jewelers that push diamond rings. I personally have an aversion to buying a ring where a diamond is the primary stone (for various ethical reasons - mainly I despise the idea that if he "doesn't get you a diamond, he doesn't love you". thanks a lot DeBeers), and the girl has agreed that a sapphire stone is better.
                  I agree, me personally as a woman I hate diamonds, to get them to shine pretty you have to mount them which makes the ring cumbersome and clunky. I want something I can easily slip my hand into my pocket with and it doesn't get caught.... I was thinking something simple like a nice black hills gold design... no stones.

                  To the OP Sorry you got the cold shoulder But they obviously don't deserve your business if they aren't going to help you.
                  "I'm not smiling because I'm happy. I'm smiling because every time I blink your head explodes!"
                  -Red

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                  • #10
                    Quoth Red_Dazes View Post
                    ..to get them to shine pretty you have to mount them ...
                    Pretty much what you have to do the GET the ring too.
                    "All I've ever learned from love was how to shoot somebody who out-drew ya"

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                    • #11
                      I've started considering going shopping in my ripped jeans and a tshirt and my lab coat from work.....with barely any makeup and my hair a mess.

                      I get hassled a lot when shopping....associates flock me at stores like Victoria's Secret and Macy's and the damn Buckle. I don't even LOOK well off when I'm dressed well.

                      I'm a freakin working class 22 year old kid who just knows how to dress nicely and look nice with what I can afford.....and I'm splurging on myself, something I rarely can do. I'm not made of money, STOP showing me $120 jeans and $50 shirts......I just want to look around!!!!!!
                      You really need to see a neurologist. - Wagegoth

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                      • #12
                        Quoth Red_Dazes View Post
                        I agree, me personally as a woman I hate diamonds, to get them to shine pretty you have to mount them which makes the ring cumbersome and clunky. I want something I can easily slip my hand into my pocket with and it doesn't get caught.... I was thinking something simple like a nice black hills gold design... no stones.
                        I agree with you, but I like colored stones. I'd want a yellow sapphire or spessartine garnet. Chocolate diamonds are awesome, though!
                        "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

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                        • #13
                          As far as diamond mountings go, my wife decided she wanted a tension set diamond. That limits your choice of metal to something strong enough to hold the mounting (carbide and titanium are the only ones I've seen offered with that mounting, but you may see some faux tension settings made of gold)

                          It shows the stone off fairly well, and the top of the stone is no higher than the top of the ring. So far she's never mentioned it catching on things.

                          The other advantage of the tension setting is that the industrial metals are hella cheaper than gold The most expensive thing about her rings was the stone.

                          Now, if you're looking at rings like that, though, you'll have a hard time. Jewelers can't work the industrial metals- titanium and carbide rings are mass produced at a factory somewhere, then finished to order by the supplier. If I had to guess, there probably are only three or four major suppliers. When you walk into a jewlery shop, they'll have maybe half a dozen titanium rings in the corner with an *insane* markup on them, just to keep their price in the same ballpark as all the gold rings. You're better off looking at titanium or carbide rings online and even then you'll have to shop around a lot to find a reasonable price.

                          not sure if this is useful, but, yeah.
                          "Joi's CEO is about as sneaky and subtle as a two year old on crack driving an air craft carrier down Broadway." - Broomjockey

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                          • #14
                            Quoth trunks2k View Post
                            I personally have an aversion to buying a ring where a diamond is the primary stone (for various ethical reasons <snippage>
                            If you want to avoid "Blood Diamonds" (and I know I would), consider getting Australian-mined diamonds.

                            Australian government fact sheet on the geology of our diamonds

                            That said, go ahead and get a sapphire or ruby or whatever you like. I'm just letting you know there are alternatives. And hey - you can always tell friends who do want diamonds that it is possible to get ones that don't incur human misery.

                            As well as the African and Australian diamonds, there are apparently also diamonds mined in Brazil, Russia and India.

                            Hm. Edit to add:

                            Wikipedia tells me there's certification to certify diamonds as not blood-diamonds
                            Last edited by Seshat; 08-08-2009, 12:08 AM.
                            Seshat's self-help guide:
                            1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
                            2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
                            3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
                            4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

                            "All I want is a pretty girl, a decent meal, and the right to shoot lightning at fools." - Anders, Dragon Age.

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                            • #15
                              Diamonds et. al.

                              My wife absolutely LOVES her Tanzanite ring. It has a nice wide range of colors and seems to be wearing well.

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