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  • My car was totalled

    Yeah, I was hit by a drunk driver today.

    We'd just finished up the first paper route and were on our way to the next one when the other car just came flying around the corner. To call his speed excessive would be an understatement. He ended up drifting and skidding sideways down the center of the road. I hit the brakes but there was nowhere to go, and he slammed into me. I hate that moment where you can see it coming and know it's gonna hurt and there's just nothing you can do about it except sit there and take it.

    The car is a total loss. It breaks my heart; it was my first car! We're okay, though. Hubs is sore but alright. The dog was sitting on his lap and got the full force of the airbag, but other than a minor abrasion he's fine too. My knee is scuffed and my foot is badly bruised to where I can't really walk much on it and I'm off work for two days, but nothing is broken.

    I don't know if the dog will ever want to ride in a car again. I know I was screaming when the accident happened (I actually thought there was a fire in the car somewhere and I couldn't open my door so I was losing my shit; fortunately it was just dirty yucky airbag fumes), and I *thought* Hubs was as well. He told me later that it was the dog that was screaming, though. I swear, I never want to hear that sound coming out of my dog again.

    There was another car ahead of us that saw what happened and stopped and called the police and EMTs for us and acted as witnesses. Another paper carrier came and took us home so we could get Hubby's car and go to the ER. The other driver was arrested for DUI. To his credit he did stay and was very remorseful. He didn't seem super drunk, but tipsy driving is still drunk driving and he was still a fucking idiot, but at least he didn't try and flee the scene or anything like that (his car was still driveable to an extent).

    Insurance should cover medical bills. My car is not worth a whole lot of money, though...not enough to buy another car like it (it was a '97 Mitsubishi Mirage with well over 200,000 miles on it, and it was my baby...). Going to say goodbye to it tomorrow when we stop by the impound lot and empty the trunk. It was my first car.

    Here's a shot of the front end to give you some idea:

    (*Mod Edit - Resized image for those with smaller screens. Click on image to restore to full picture.)


    Ung...we just replaced that fender and headlight like two weeks ago, too.
    Last edited by Ree; 04-21-2013, 07:34 PM. Reason: Resized image
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    oh my gord. I am so glad you guys are ok.
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    • #3
      Dang...glad your family and you are all ok.

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      • #4
        Sorry for what happened, KittyKat, but thank goodness you all got out of it OK
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        • #5
          Glad all of you are OK
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          • #6
            SO so glad you guys are ok! Gentle hugs for the puppy dog
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            • #7
              holy crap! I'm glad everyone is ok.

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              • #8
                Oh thank god you're okay! It was really fortunate that you all came out of that with only a few bumps and bruises, it could've been far, far worse. Sorry about the car though, that does suck!
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                • #9
                  I'm so sorry this happened to you, and I'm glad that none of you were seriously injured.

                  Make sure all of you take it easy over the next few days; whiplash can present several days after the accident, so make sure you don't do anything heavy duty for a while.

                  I know it'll take a while, but maybe try to put aside whatever you were paying in insurance and fuel on your old car, less any public transport costs while you're carless, to try to save towards a new one?

                  Give your dog a treat from me.

                  One tip for the dog's next trip in a car; try to keep calm and not change your old pre-car trip routine in any way, or the dog will start going tense in anticipation, which will make you tenser, which will turn into a feedback loop with the dog going berserk every time you go near a car. Also, a minor sedative before the first few rides might help.
                  Last edited by greek_jester; 04-20-2013, 03:05 PM. Reason: Didn't mean to make it sound like I was sorry you weren't hurt worse >.<
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                  • #10
                    So glad to hear that everyone if OK. Relax and enjoy the time off. You will heal faster.

                    Don't worry about the medical bills (except to keep track of them). That is what HIS insurance is for.

                    PS. Go find a lawyer. Just be careful. He will probably start salivating when you tell him the other guy was cited for DUI.
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                    • #11
                      I'm glad you guys are ok, and I second the lawer. Don't wait call one as soon as you can, and get a copy of the police report too.
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                      • #12
                        Quoth csquared View Post
                        Don't worry about the medical bills (except to keep track of them). That is what HIS insurance is for.

                        PS. Go find a lawyer. Just be careful. He will probably start salivating when you tell him the other guy was cited for DUI.
                        Also, the drunk's insurance company is going to try and get you to sign papers. Don't, not until you get a lawyer to look them over first. His insurance company is going to do everything it can to weasel out of paying your hospital bills and your pain and suffering.

                        You deserve pain and suffering. That, plus the blue book value on your car should at least pay it off if not paid off and/or go towards a down payment on a new one.

                        Finally. I am SOOOOO glad you are ok.
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                        • #13
                          Thanks for all the well wishes. Trying to take it easy. Will be looking into lawyers. BFF has had a few accidents in the past (and her brother has had more), so I'll be contacting her mom who helped them through it and get recs from her.

                          I think the dog will be okay in the end. This morning when we left for the paper route, the dog made a beeline for the car and wanted to come along. There's really not enough room in Hubby's tiny car for him and it took some coaxing to get him back inside. He wanted to go along to the mechanic when we picked up Hubby's car, too. I'll be careful about reintroducing him to riding along in the vehicle...probably spend some time Monday or Tuesday. He certainly wants in the vehicle, or thinks he does, so we'll see how he does once he actually gets in one later.

                          Then Hubby's car died on the route. We were able to get it fixed this morning fortunately. We can't really be down another vehicle now. It did give Hubs a chance to chat with the mechanic and get recs on good used car dealers.

                          I had a medical note excusing me from two days of work. I will work my MOD shift tomorrow and take it easy, but will probably take Sunday off (normally a maintenance shift...I don't see that happening). Boss Lady and Night Auditor have been sick, so they've been spread pretty thin lately and I feel bad about leaving them hanging. My normal scheduled days off are Monday and Tuesday, so that should work out well. I am feeling pretty good; everyone has been saying the day after you get really sore but so far I haven't experienced that.

                          Said one last goodbye to the car today:

                          (*Mod Edit - Resized image for those with smaller screens. Click on image to restore to full picture.)


                          I cried the whole drive home from that.
                          Last edited by Ree; 04-21-2013, 07:36 PM. Reason: Resized image
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                          • #14
                            Jeeeeez that's scary looking. It looks even worse in the daylight shot. Glad you guys and your pup are alright!
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                            • #15
                              Wow! That sucks. I'm glad to hear everyone is okay. Sorry to hear about your car. I remember when my first car departed. I loved that thing.

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