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    So I'm on my way to work, driving along [Toll Road], which is the fastest and least stressful way for me to get to The Client. There are four lanes in each direction. I typically hang out in the second left lane, since it'll take me to one of the EZ Pass lanes at the toll plaza, and only shift lanes to get around someone I think is going a mite too slowly.

    Anyway, today I'm stuck behind a line of cars that's going too slow for my tastes and shift into the left (fast) lane to pass them. The line turns out longer than I thought, but I maintain speed-- not gunning it, but just maintaining my current rate.

    I notice a SuckUV coming up a little faster behind me, and decide "I'll get out of their way once I pass this line of cars."

    Things go slightly awry when a pick-up truck in the third lane shifts left to get into the second lane, just as I'm finally past the line. "No problem," I think, "I'll either wait for him to get ahead of me, or pass him to clear the lane for the SuckUV."

    Annnd then the SuckUV decides to ride a little too close and flashes her headlights at me.

    At that point, my decision to clear the lane for her was immediately scrapped. I'd been willing to get out of her way, and would have gladly done so if she'd just been patient, kept a safe distance, and waited for me to get clear when I had the chance.

    I didn't have that chance yet. The line of cars was still to my right, and the only way for me to get out of SuckUV's way was to either speed up outside my comfort zone to pass the pick-up truck, or move onto the shoulder, which I point-blank refuse to do for anyone short of emergency vehicles.

    So I eased my foot on the accelerator-- not all the way off, but just enough that instead of speeding up, I was maintaining my speed. Still, I'll admit, above the speed limit, but keeping pace with the flow.

    What does SuckUV do? She flashes her lights at me again. Then again. And again. And again.

    She kept flashing her lights, and I may have backed off the accelerator a little more, but I did not tap my brakes at all. I know that kind of thing can set off rage in some drivers, and she was close enough that I didn't want to risk a rear-end collision.

    Plus, when she started flashing her lights over and over, the lane markings shifted from dashed whites to solid whites-- which mean "passing is discouraged." Not illegal, mind you, but discouraged.

    At any rate, a mile or so from the toll plaza, the line of cars to our right finally dispersed or fell behind, and SuckUV immediately shifted over, got ahead of me, shifted back into the fast lane, and kept going.

    Was I being sucky? I don't think so. I had been keeping pace with the flow of traffic, maybe going a little faster, and had been willing to get out of her way until she got impatient and flashed her lights at me. At that point, my helpfulness was at an end.

    Patience. Learn it.
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    Did you flash your headlights ad nauseum at her (assuming you were right behind her) after she did this?
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    • #3
      Quoth EricKei View Post
      Did you flash your headlights ad nauseum at her (assuming you were right behind her) after she did this?
      Nah, that's just too petty.



      ...plus, she was going fast enough that even though I did lean on the accelerator to try to maintain speed with her after she got in front of me, she still pulled ahead.
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      • #4
        Quoth Jay 2K Winger View Post
        Nah, that's just too petty.
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        • #5
          Nah. The sucky one is always the one going against the flow of traffic. Dun matter if they're going slower or faster. It's sucky to go against the flow.

          Just flow man, be like water~
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          • #6
            Last weekend we traveled to Charlotte on I85/40. It's 3 lanes in one direction. I had moved from the middle Lane to pass a vehicle at a speed that was just under the threshold that police will pull you over for in this state. I had the cruise on, completing the pass, when an ass in an F150 decided that wasn't good enough. He planted himself right up the arse of our van. I was going to let it go, but when dude just would not back off I decided "screw it. He can go around". And so he did. And promptly almost hit us on the merge back into the far left Lane. I took great pains to point out the hour pink dash Cam, which had a great view of his plate. He swiftly moved along without any more drama.
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            • #7
              Yes, she was impatient. But you were sucky.

              You knew she wanted to pass, so you decided to slow down and prevent that? I'm shocked she didn't get all road ragey even though you didn't brake. The extra flashing lights were a sign that she was getting more pissed.

              All you had to do was ignore the idiot and keep going as you were. Instead you purposely tried to tick her off and probably caused yourself more stress by doing so. Because I know I get stressed when someone tailgates me and looks to be heading toward crazy.

              Instead you decided that you were going to police her and slow her down.

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              • #8
                Quoth GOInsanity View Post
                I'm shocked she didn't get all road ragey even though you didn't brake. The extra flashing lights were a sign that she was getting more pissed.
                She wanted to pass. There was no possible way for her to pass me legally.

                I was already going faster than the speed limit. (But going with the flow of traffic, and a little bit faster than that.)

                For her to pass me, or for me to get out of her way, I would have to either move onto the shoulder (which I won't do unless I'm having a vehicle breakdown or if an emergency vehicle is coming through) or speeding up to a rate that I didn't feel comfortable going-- especially not to get out of the way of some impatient woman in a SuckUV.

                So I didn't speed up. I maintained my current appreciably-faster-than-the-flow rate of speed.

                My goal, on the roads, is to drive to keep myself and others around me safe. Speeding up to get out of her way would not have been safe, in my opinion. So I didn't.
                Last edited by EricKei; 08-31-2015, 03:09 PM. Reason: trimmed quote
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                • #9
                  Quoth Jay 2K Winger View Post
                  She wanted to pass. There was no possible way for her to pass me legally.

                  ...

                  My goal, on the roads, is to drive to keep myself and others around me safe. Speeding up to get out of her way would not have been safe, in my opinion. So I didn't.
                  Except you didn't have to gun the car or get on the shoulder. All you had to do was keep accelerating as you were until you were at a comfortable speed. Instead you stopped doing that so that you could piss her off more. You decided that you wanted to police her speed because you didn't like that someone didn't follow your rules of the road.

                  I agree that she shouldn't have flashed her lights at you. That was just a jerk move on her part. But to then try to tick her off? That's what causes road rage and accidents.
                  Last edited by EricKei; 08-31-2015, 03:09 PM. Reason: trimmed quote

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                  • #10
                    Quoth GOInsanity View Post
                    I agree that she shouldn't have flashed her lights at you. That was just a jerk move on her part. But to then try to tick her off? That's what causes road rage and accidents.
                    Yep, she could have easily escalated things further. Some people, no matter how fast they're going, are always in such a damn hurry. No sense in provoking them further--you don't know if the other driver is mentally unbalanced, or worse--armed Plus, in some states, if you're not using the left lane to pass, you can actually get pulled over for holding up traffic.
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                    • #11
                      In my state, South Carolina, it is illegal to ride in the passing lane if you're not passing. You can and will get a ticket if a state trooper sees you.

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                      • #12
                        He was passing, just not as fast as the impatient person would have liked. I would have done the same thing, Jay. I won't be bullied into driving unsafely, which is what could have happened.
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                        • #13
                          Quoth GOInsanity View Post
                          Except you didn't have to gun the car or get on the shoulder. All you had to do was keep accelerating as you were until you were at a comfortable speed. Instead you stopped doing that so that you could piss her off more. You decided that you wanted to police her speed because you didn't like that someone didn't follow your rules of the road.
                          I was already going at a comfortable speed. I was still going slightly faster than the flow of traffic in the lane to my right. I just wasn't going to speed up further just because SuckUV was impatient.

                          Quoth notalwaysright View Post
                          He was passing, just not as fast as the impatient person would have liked. I would have done the same thing, Jay. I won't be bullied into driving unsafely, which is what could have happened.
                          This is basically what I was getting at. I was still passing the cars on my right, but I wasn't going to go uncomfortably fast just because SuckUV was in a damn hurry.
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                          • #14
                            Yah when I'm passing on the highway here I maintain a safe speed, not gun it at 160kmph like some people do because that's what gets your ass pulled over. I see people maintaining a speed of like 140kmph all the time here, limit is 100kmph on the highway. I see them again further down pulled over by a ghost car, lol.

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                            • #15
                              Quoth Jay 2K Winger View Post
                              I was already going at a comfortable speed. I was still going slightly faster than the flow of traffic in the lane to my right. I just wasn't going to speed up further just because SuckUV was impatient.



                              This is basically what I was getting at. I was still passing the cars on my right, but I wasn't going to go uncomfortably fast just because SuckUV was in a damn hurry.

                              Except you said that you eased off the accelerator. So you were comfortable going faster. But decided not to because you wanted to teach her a lesson.

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