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  • Seeing is Believing, But It Isn't Going to Change the Laws of Physics

    My brother-in-law drives a semi. He was in the right lane and noticed a car driving from the breakdown lane signalling that he was going to merge.

    BIL had no choice but to hit the brakes and pray the guy in the car saw him and wasn't foolish enough to try merging in front of him. BIL could not swerve to the left because there was a car there.

    The guy in the car DID merge in front of him. BIL had slowed down as much as he could but trucks don't stop on a dime. He couldn't avoid the collision.

    Thank God and BIL's driving skills that nobody was hurt. He stopped, checked that everyone was OK, then called the police and his dispatcher in that order. His training was not to say anything about fault to the other driver but only tell the truth to the police.

    Of course the other driver had *plenty* to say while waiting for the police.

    "Didn't you see me? I had my signal on!"

    Of course BIL saw him. That's the only reason the guy was still alive. But merely seeing someone pull in front of you when you don't have time to stop is not going to magically keep you from hitting him. All he could do was minimize the damage.

    And while turn signals are great for giving people a chance to react to something stupid that someone is about to do, like merging in front of a truck, they can't alter the fabric of space or time or make large objects stop instantly. So yeah.

    More lame attempts followed to get BIL to admit fault, interspersed with threats to sue and get BIL fired. It must have killed him, but BIL just bit his tongue and calmly kept telling the guy that help was on the way and then they could both give a report to the police.

    What was funny was that after the police checked the scene and took the reports, they immediately told BIL that he wasn't at fault and commended him for his quick reaction. They even helped him find the company approved motel his dispatcher had told him to use (since his daily hours were up).

    BIL doesn't know what they told the other guy but he certainly didn't appear to be happy to hear it.

    And yes, the other guy tried to change his story when he filed a report with his own insurance company. AND the other guy's insurance company tried to trick BIL into filing a new report by sending threatening letters to his house, then following up with phone calls when he ignored the letters.

    None of that worked. BIL might drive a truck, but he didn't just fall off one. He calmly told the insurance rep that the matter was being handled by the company, he was not going to discuss it, and gave them the phone number of his company's legal department.
    Last edited by Dips; 03-23-2010, 12:51 PM.
    The best karma is letting a jerk bash himself senseless on the wall of your polite indifference.

    The stupid is strong with this one.

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    wow. that's...special. your brother in law has amazing patience! my hat's off to him...hopefully this all gets taken care of soon!
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    • #3
      Yay for him. I don't think I would have had that kind of patience.
      Something similar happened to my dad, also a truck driver. Involved another truck and a van. Van pulls out, without signal in front of the other truck. Other truck tries to stop. The trailer lights on the other truck were out, so my dad didn't see that it was stopping till it was too late. He ended up being in a coma for 3 weeks and in physical therapy to this day. He can't drive and is labeled disabled, even though he can get around and such perfectly well, with a small limp now. According to the intial report, they put the blame on my dad for failure to control vehicle, but after I found out the whole story from my dad who fortunetly and unfortunetly remembered everything from the accident, I went to them, pointed out the inaccurants and such in the van and eye witness reports, along with pointing out the faulty lights in the trailer and failure to signal, which are both illegal. Thankfully, he is free of any charges of fault. I hate it when people try to blame truck drivers for everything. You have to be a pretty good driver to get your CDL which tells me I'd rather have a ton of trucks on the road then stupid people in little cars. At least trucks are eaiser to see when they need to merge and such.
      Just because they serve you, doesn't mean they like you. And just because they smile and act polite doesn't mean they aren't planning to destroy you.

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      • #4
        Quoth Dips View Post
        "Didn't you see me? I had my signal on!"
        Ah yes the famous "blinker light of invunerability" a lot of people seem to think its a standard feature on cars now that allows you to change lanes and pull out into traffic with impunity.
        Be Nicer To Retail Workers 2K18, also known as: stop being an incredibly shitty human to people just doing their job.

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