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  • This is all your fault!

    Yeah, I’m not one to rant on websites or forums but this is bothering me.
    Bothering me a lot.

    And no amount of nerve pills, fuzzy peaches, or snuggling my cat has cured it.

    So this past thursday I start work, serve a few people, shift goes on. Then this guy comes back and says I short changed him. Ok lets look at the order memory in the machine, says you paid this much and that this is your change. He says he gave me more and that his changed should be $10.

    As I start to tell him our rule for when this happens (take name and number call you back if its over) he snaps. He starts screaming, yelling, swearing that I’d better open my till and give him his money. I remain cool, try and calm him down and try my hand at explaining the protocol we take in these situations. Nope every time I open my mouth he starts yelling again.

    So I go and get my boss and this is when the dam breaks. When I get stressed I'm calm on the inside but on the outside I turn into Niagara Falls. So my boss goes out there to try her hand at talking to this lunatic.

    It essentially ends with us calling security, my boss gives him the $10 to quiet him up (this is after he starts going on about how he's not trying to rob us and that he will give us his contact info incase that happens, which is what we were trying to tell him in the first place) and then he's escorted out.

    When I close I discover the cash machine is, oh look at that, under $10.

    Now I thought that this horrible day ended with that, nope luck is not on my side.

    I go in the next day and my co-worker (let me say that again, my co-worker) tears me a new one about how that whole scenario yesterday was my fault.

    I had instigated the customer, I'm a idiot for not fully remembering what he paid me, stuff like this always happens when I'm working, the bosses are furious with me and don't know what to do with me, she blames me for us giving him the money when we should of known better, it's my fault that I showed weakness and he used that against me, it's my fault I'm a nice person so he used that against me, I shouldn't be getting flustered over one customer (I wasn't, I have two people in line who all told him to calm down and listen to the girl), I'm not strong enough to work this if I'm going to break down to tears at any small complaint that comes by (I tell the girls I'm the complaint department so I don't know where this came from), and that I better watch myself for I'll be fired.

    During my whole shift I'm a nervous reck, I ask my bosses about the till being short and they say I'm not at fault. I'm seriously tempted to go in tomorrow and tell them this, that on top of being yelled at by a asshole I also get a lecturing from a co-worker who has one hell of a boss complex

    **UPDATE**

    I talked with my boss about this and the two girls in the back heard the whole conversation my co-worker had with me, they told the boss what they heard and upon hearing my statement their going to have a few words with this co-worker on monday.
    Last edited by RazzumFrazzum; 05-10-2015, 12:09 AM.

  • #2
    I'm so sorry you had to put up with this.

    First, your boss gave the scammer the $10, so that's not your fault. I'm glad security was called and this clown should be ban-hammered but good!

    You should immediately speak to your boss and HR about your co-worker before somebody slams something hard into his face for stepping out of line and harassing co-workers.

    Hope things get better for you...

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    • #3
      Hey, we're here to listen Rant away!

      And, yeah-- what eltf said -- Your BOSS gave this guy the ten bucks, against your better instincts. This one is on the boss. Go directly to the store manager, and be prepared to talk to HR about the boss and that co-worker. Write everything down on paper, in as much detail as possible, ASAP. Dates, times, names, everything. HR can certainly go take a look at the security camera footage/Exception report (list of passwords/manager keys/overrides used, unless the manager simply made you open your till).

      The way the guy was acting was a dead giveaway -- he was scamming you from the start, plain and simple. Did he actually leave his details? HR might wanna know that, too.
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      • #4
        First off, that co-worker was WAY out of line. Report the conversation to your manager and/or your HR department right away. What that person did is harassment, straight up. Secondly, if they try to start on you again, ever, say "You are out of line. Stop now." and walk away from them. If they don't stop, or do something really dumb like grab you, inform them that their assault/harassment is being reported and do so immediately.

        About the jerkoff sucktomer... you did what you could there. I agree, the guy was scamming from the start. You, however, are off the hook for anything that happened after your manager stepped in.

        And what others have said- this place is FOR ranting (among other stuff), so rant away!
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        • #5
          You're being harassed by a co-worker over something that wasn't your fault. Go to HR right away & report her. No reason to put up with that crap.

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          • #6
            Wow. Some truly nasty people about. That guy was a scammer and became aggressive to get you flustered. That's not an easy thing to have to endure. I've been there. Your boss gave him the $10, while you stuck to your guns. None of this is your fault. Your coworker was completely out of line. It kind of sounds like she's got it in for you and is bullying you. You really should complain.

            I'm so sorry you had to go through this *hugs*

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            • #7
              What a dick move. Scammers do this, they create a scene and the natural human instinct is to do anything to make it go away.

              Boss was spineless. He should have told the dude, "You're not getting any money out of this till until I've checked it. Now are you going to let me do my job, or do I need to call the police?"

              That would have shut the scammer up right quick.
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              • #8
                Hostile. Work. Environment. I'd recommend complaining to HR.

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                • #9
                  Unfortunately you can't claim hostile work environment if it's a coworker and not someone above you. Hubs learned this one the hard way because of an older gentlemen that likes to follow him around where he works to "keep him from stealing" and has said this to his face. They have no power over you so they can't threaten your job, therefore they can't create a hostile environment.... Yea... Right... >_< His lawyer said it would never hold up because of the lack of any power.

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                  • #10
                    He got a bad lawyer or someone who wasn't seeing enough dollar signs. We have training all.the.time at work on harassment and employee on employee harassment is hostile work environment. The way it is put to us is anything from verbal to physical to sexual abuse happens, the person doing the abuse is immediately removed from the premises and an investigation is started. We also have a corporate hotline to report this stuff to if we feel our supervisors are not handling it correctly.

                    You had a scammer (I don't think anyone of us who has worked a register hasn't had one) aand your management took over and took the blame. What your coworker did next, IMO was worse than the scammer. Sounds lie someone has delusions of importance and will hopefully be slapped down by management until they never ever speak to a co worker like that again

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                    • #11
                      Try Valerian root, it really helps when I'm having anxiety issues.
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                      • #12
                        Quoth WishfulSpirit View Post
                        Try Valerian root, it really helps when I'm having anxiety issues.
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                        • #13
                          Quoth Sapphire Silk View Post
                          What a dick move. Scammers do this, they create a scene and the natural human instinct is to do anything to make it go away.
                          Yes they do, and unfortunately it worked this time. Another thing they do is switch bills in mid-transaction, often more than once to confuse you. There are more cons but I can't think of them at the moment.

                          Your boss really dropped the ball, but I'm sure he was getting flustered too. Your coworker was way out of line and you did not deserve the haranguing you received. I'm glad you let management know.
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                          • #14
                            A note on hostile work environment: You need to let management know that this CW spoke to you in what amounts to a hostile manner. Document it, keep a printed copy, and email a copy to your manager. Email is great because you have a record of when you sent it in your Sent box (print a copy of that, too, and keep it at home).

                            Thus it becomes management's job to remedy the situation. If they don't, then the fact that they were made aware of the problem and yet did nothing means they were responsible for it.
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                            • #15
                              Sounds as if the coworkers are possibly in with the scammer. Don't you think?

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