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  • Gotta Love People...

    A few bits from my grocery store days...

    There was a girl I went to school with and worked with. She had been in a car accident and had a rather large scar going down her cheek. It was noticeable, yes, but if you were a mature decent human being, you'd ignore it and still treat her the same as everyone else!

    You'd imagine the only people that would be staring at her and giving her a hard time would be children. For the most part, yes. Little kids stared and pointed. But the most unbelievable thing were the elderly customers who would stare at her, stare at her just like children do. They were totally shameless about it. She'd see them, their eyes totally fixated on her scar. She'd always say something snappy like "Yes, there's a scar there!" or something else that would make them stop and turn away in shame for being so stupid and staring.

    There was a mentally disabled bagger (the one that always came to the gas station and hit on me) who little kids constantly stared at and said things about. "Mommy, he talks funny!" "Mommy, he looks funny!" Doesn't anyone teach their children that everyone is different!?

    I have always been known for my love of experimenting with makeup. I don't think I've ever worn anything extremely ridiculous......and you'd never imagine that there were people who lived under such big rocks that they'd do this, but people would constantly STARE at my eyes and would make comments like "What is that shit on your face?" The worst was the old ladies with the shaved eyebrows and fake ones drawn in with BLUE eyeliner. They had the gall to make fun of me when they looked much more ridiculous. At least I had my natural brows.

    One time a family who all wreeked of cow shit came through my line and I watched the little boy tug at his mom's shirt and make gestures around his eyes as if to signify a racoon. I glared at him and he hid behind his mommy. Thank God she never caught on or complained about me.

    People and their kids are extremely hopeless these days. My parents taught me no to make fun of people or say mean things to people like that. If I had a question I was to wait until we got outside. I never made fun of handicapped people or people with scars or birth defects or anything like that, lest I'd get my rear end tanned but good!
    You really need to see a neurologist. - Wagegoth

  • #2
    Quoth blas87 View Post
    I never made fun of handicapped people or people with scars or birth defects or anything like that, lest I'd get my rear end tanned but good!
    That's the problem, though. If a parent so much as pinches their kid, they can get them taken away. Not to Fratchingtize this post, but laws have seriously stepped in most parents' way when it comes to, well, parenting. And that's all I'll input on that.

    I was taught that people are different and to respect their differences. And I have, and still do. I mean, whatever happened to TV shows that were geared towards teaching exactly those lessons? Oh, right. Mommy and Daddy's CSI: Insert City Here and COPS are more important, and the little kiddies can't figure out how to work the remote without their parents' help, so they just watch the same BS that their parents do.

    Long live Mr. Rogers! And Sesame Street! And Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (the old kid-friendly TV ones)! Despite TMNT not really teaching kids much except that crime doesn't pay and that pizza is the be-all-end-all for 15-year-old mutant turtles who have studied Ninjutsu under a wicked old mutant rat, so why not you too?
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    • #3
      TMNT was one of my favorites growing up. ^_^ But yeah, there are laws that allow children to be taken away from their parents rather quickly, and it is true that children are growing up a lot faster lately. I abhor that. Children should be children until they reach at least age 16. 16 would be my standard limit for accepting responsibility regarding money and other things.

      As for staring, I got stared at a lot because I was androgynous as a child and, being really sensitive, I took it hard. My parents told me not to make fun of anyone, and beat the hell out of me when I acted like a jerk. Too bad new parents nowadays are too afraid to beat their kids. I mean, I turned out fine?

      But older folks? Geez... Life experience doesn't make up for everything, I guess.
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      • #4
        I dunno, I still think I've got you beat for the fact that I've been asked "Are you going to have a baby or are you just heavy?"

        And not two weeks later, some woman asked me when my baby was due.


        I was not pregnant. Never have been. And I'm not even that big >< The sheer lack of tact these days amazes me.
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        • #5
          OMG - what is WRONG with people? I've seen plenty of people who look pregnant, but then I look again, and I'm not sure. But I would NEVER think to ask, if I wasn't sure, nor would I ever ask a complete stranger!

          I happen to be on the hefty side, and carry a lot of weight in my stomach area...in fact, I joke when I feel really large that the "baby" is due any day now...but I have to say, if anyone ever asked me, I would just LOVE to turn around and say "I'm not pregnant, I'm just fat" in a normal tone and watch their reaction!

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          • #6
            Quoth blas87 View Post
            I have always been known for my love of experimenting with makeup.
            When I worked at the coffeeshop in the mall, we were right next to a makeup store. Not just makeup, M*A*C. If you're unfamiliar with them, they're VERY colorful. The salesladies (and the occasional salesgent) always wear black and always have NEAT makeup. I'd love the weekends, when they would have themes. Roses, feathers, particular colors, whatever. My favorite one was ivy. They'd paint themselves with makeup, like it was ivy over their skin. Loved it. One of the girls would always get really abstract with her makeup, too. So artistic. So: cool on you.

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            • #7
              Quoth MMATM View Post
              ! And Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (the old kid-friendly TV ones)! Despite TMNT not really teaching kids much except that crime doesn't pay and that pizza is the be-all-end-all for 15-year-old mutant turtles who have studied Ninjutsu under a wicked old mutant rat, so why not you too?
              Um...The old origional TMNT drank beer, April wasn't an Irish redhead, and Raphael had serious mental issues. Definately not material for the kiddies (even though that's when I read 'em). The (first series) cartoons were the re-write.

              </geek rant off>

              But I know what you're saying. Kudos.

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              • #8
                Here's my little tale.
                I dress rather odd, but not in a way that is overly attention drawing....usually. On this particular occasion, I was wearing black pants, a white button down, a black walking jacket, & a tie. The only thing over the top is my top hat. It's a very large top hat that is gray with a black band & a large picture of Jack Skeleington. I know that the hat draws attention & I don't really mind as long as the people around me are respectful of my choice to wear it.

                As I'm heading along my town's tiny little mall, I pass this group of maybe 6 girls around the ages of 10-12. These girls see me & start yelling out "You don't know how to dress" & things along those lines.

                OMG! I couldn't believe these girls! If I had done that I would have never heard the end of how rude & disrespectful that was. I didn't do alot because they're children, it's not like I could have beaten them in their mother's place (a good spanking is probably just what those girls need) but I was so mad.

                (And let me add that these girls were there, no supervision, all dressed like little whores in their mary-kate and ashley mini-skirts and tiny tank tops. Is it just me or was mommy just laying bait for a pedophile?)

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                • #9
                  Quoth Geek King View Post

                  Geek King, who read the old Eastman and Laird Comics
                  I liked the fact they killed off Shredder in the first issule. BOOM!





                  Quoth Screamarie View Post
                  (And let me add that these girls were there, no supervision, all dressed like little whores in their mary-kate and ashley mini-skirts and tiny tank tops. Is it just me or was mommy just laying bait for a pedophile?)
                  You know i had a mother dressed like a hooker that her young daughter (Maybe 8?) coming in where tight beyond tight shorts that said in big bold letters JUICY.

                  ....

                  I remember once, I was maybe 7? I saw my first midget. I proclaimed loudly to my mom, "That man is TINY MOM!!! WHY HE SO SMALL!!".

                  By did my mom turn nine different shades of red, both embrassment and anger. I apolgied to him, and so did my mom. He didn't seem to care and laughed it off. Then later that day, my butt talked to a wooden spoon.
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                  • #10
                    Quoth Plaidman View Post
                    You know i had a mother dressed like a hooker that her young daughter (Maybe 8?) coming in where tight beyond tight shorts that said in big bold letters JUICY.

                    ....

                    I remember once, I was maybe 7? I saw my first midget. I proclaimed loudly to my mom, "That man is TINY MOM!!! WHY HE SO SMALL!!".

                    By did my mom turn nine different shades of red, both embrassment and anger. I apolgied to him, and so did my mom. He didn't seem to care and laughed it off. Then later that day, my butt talked to a wooden spoon.
                    oh yes, I too was well acquainted with the wooden spoon! OUCH! Reminds me of when a friend and I (in the last year or so) were walking through K-mart in the kitchen section, and she sees a spatula, and says "that reminds me of the spatula my mother used to beat me with" - just the way she said it had me hysterical, and I STILL can't tell the story without breaking our in hysterical laughter. She didn't mean beat literally, but if she or her brother misbehaved, they got spanked with it.

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                    • #11
                      Quoth Plaidman View Post
                      You know i had a mother dressed like a hooker that her young daughter (Maybe 8?) coming in where tight beyond tight shorts that said in big bold letters JUICY.
                      I was at the fair a week or two ago waiting in line for the races.

                      (the boring backstory as to why I ended up here) At our fair all entertainment is included in the price of admission. We have the main arena which is where they normally hold the dirt track races during the normal year, at fair time the first two nights are races with the demo derby finishing the night. The next 6 days are concerts as they turn the track into the stage area and install folding chairs. The last 2 nights are the rodeo. Since admission is free it can fill up quickly, so I normally head down their early to save seats for the family and our friends who meet us down their.

                      Ok back to the story....I was waiting in line and the family in front of us was a little "Trashy" so to speak. They had a couple of kids with them and one of the girls was no older then 4 years old. She was wearing pink "Shorty Shorts" (G**Damn you Larry the Cable Guy) but they had Juicy printed on the butt. I couldn't believe it, 4 freaken years old wearing Juicy shorts. A little piece of me died that day.
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                      • #12
                        Of the few times my hair would be long, I'd get looks from kids and the occasional comments from random idiots.

                        One day I was at the movies with my then g/f at the time, a kid loudly said "Mommy, does that guy want to be a girl?" The mom refused to do a thing about it and I was pissed.

                        And I'm not too big on fashion, for me cool clothes involve a rugby/soccer jersey and jeans as I just feel comfortable in that set-up. If I hear one more, "You'd look great if you wore Hollister/AE/Abercrombie or fashion" comment I am going to lose it.
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                        • #13
                          You can always tell the freshmen girls apart from the upperclassmen. The freshmen girls look like hookers every day going to class.

                          Oh, and a good way for RAs to judge how busy their night is going to be is to sit near the entrance door (hopefully there is only one) and see how many girls dressed like prostitutes walk through. I wish I were kidding, but I'm not. Not saying this is an excuse for behavior, but college officials wonder why there are so many sexual assault cases. Any wonder why boys get confused with the girls' ambiguity?
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                          • #14
                            Quoth Shabo View Post
                            Any wonder why boys get confused with the girls' apparent availibility?
                            Edited for truth and my amusement.

                            Rapscallion

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                            • #15
                              Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                              Edited for truth and my amusement.

                              Rapscallion
                              Yeah know I had a very dirty thought after I read your edit. I broke the first rule cause i had soda.
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