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  • "I am not a babysitter!"

    I work at a video games store in a strip mall that shares a parking lot with a Costco.

    It's not uncommon at all for parents to drop their kids off with us while they go shop at the Costco. Usually the brats hang out with us for a half an hour or so, play our demos, don't usually buy anything and leave when the parent comes back to pick them up. Now I don't usually do things any differently (i.e. monitor them more closely) just because there are young kids in my store. That's not my job.

    So last week these two young boys (around 5 and 10 I'd guess) came in unaccompanied and proceeded to browse the games for well over 20 minutes. They weren't being disruptive or anything (although they did kind of make a mess of our game boy display). If other customers came in, I turned my attention to them and pretty much ignored the kids. At some point the younger boy left the store. There are other stores in the strip mall and I figured the parent must be in one of them so he went back to be with his mom or dad.

    A few minutes later the mom comes in, without the child to pick up her boys.
    She asks the older one where his brother his and he says he didn't know. So she then asks me if I know. I tell her he left the store but I'm not sure where exactly he went.

    She then gives me la ook of disbelief and says "Well, weren't you watching them?" I reply that I wasn't paying too close attention to them because I had other customers and job duties to attend to. Her response: "Well that's terrible you should be keeping an eye on the kids that come in here."
    Me: "I'm sorry miss, that's not my job. If you don't want the kids to take off, my advice would be to keep them with you at all times. I think your son is probably at one of the other stores in this plaza."

    So she leaves in a huff and comes back a little while later with both her sons and asks to speak to the manager (here we go...). She tells the manager that I was rude to her and I have no business telling her how to parent and I shouldn't have let her kid leave the store. The manager tells her the same thing I did: "It's not OUR job to babysit YOUR kids" (emphasis added by me).

    She replies: "well you just lost my business" and storms out. The funny thing is that neither her or her kids had ever bought anything from our store. How can we lose business that we never had?

    I have many job duties, babysitting is not one of them. If you can't be bothered to look after your own kids, don't expect me to do it.

    Some people!
    Last edited by CrazedClerk; 08-29-2006, 09:52 PM. Reason: spelling mistake

  • #2
    Amen! Sing it!

    I've no problem if the kids come in the store and don't cause trouble and don't bug me excessively. A few questions are OK, naturally. It's even better if they buy stuff.

    But I'm not going to babysit them. They can come and go as any customer. I'm not responsible for their whereabouts, and I'm not going to give them any special attention outside of what customers usually get. Parents: if you want a babysitter, get one, clerks won't care. Heck, I'll get security if I think the kid is too young to be by him or herself in my store.

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    • #3
      Mother: Where is my five year old son? Didn't you watch him?

      Clerk: You don't know where your young child is? You left him without adult supervision and he wandered off and now you don't know where he is? Excuse me a moment, I am required to report this to Child Services. <picks up phone>

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      • #4
        If she was gone for only half an hour, why couldn't she have taken the children with her? I think that's a lazy and irresponsible thing to 'dump' you're children off at the store and expect the clerk to watch them . . . hell, you don't get paid enough for that...
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        • #5
          I'm a long time lurker but had to respond to this one.

          this happened to my old boss who told me about it the next day. (he was actually a good boss, shocking I know)

          the radio hack store we worked at had been open til 9 for a few years but changed hours so it closed at 6. this woman comes in and drops her 5 year old off and tells him to stay put til she comes back, this is at 5 o'clock.
          at 6 when the store is closing the manager tells the kid he can't stay and asks where his mother is, little boy doesn't know and starts crying about his mother telling him to stay put. the manager decides to call the police in the small town where the store is located, when they show up they ask the kid if he knows where his mother went, he doesn't so they go to look for her. the store being in a small strip mall with only 5 stores and a bar (uh oh.. somebody is figuring this out...) they put junior in the cruiser and let him play with the siren to keep him amused. here's the shocking part... drum roll please...

          they find her in the BAR. after they get her away from her beverage of choice and outside she proceeds to scream at my boss that we should have stayed open til 9 and why did he call the police.
          bosses answer. its not my responsibility to watch your child and the hours are clearly posted on the door. I couldn't believe this woman left her 5 year old alone in a store so she could go get drunk.

          the best part of this is when she dragged junior to the car and started to drive away the police immediately pulled her over and arrested her for drunk driving and child endangerment for having junior in the car

          guess stupid got hers.

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          • #6
            Quoth tignish View Post
            this happened to my old boss who told me about it the next day. <snip>

            the best part of this is when she dragged junior to the car and started to drive away the police immediately pulled her over and arrested her for drunk driving and child endangerment for having junior in the car
            Now that's what I call a victory for justice and clerks everywhere! Awesome story!
            Last edited by Ree; 08-29-2006, 11:35 PM. Reason: Excessive quoting-we've already read the whole post above

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            • #7
              That used to happen at the Nordbum's I worked at. My department was night next to the children's department. Parents would just leave the kids to destroy the displays, bug the salespeople, and jump all over the giant teddy bear.

              It's very simple: we're not babysitters, it's not in the job description, and, above all, the store cannot be responsible and liable for your children. Frankly, if you can't be bothered with caring for your own children, don't have any.
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              • #8
                Quoth tignish View Post
                the best part of this is when she dragged junior to the car and started to drive away the police immediately pulled her over and arrested her for drunk driving and child endangerment for having junior in the car

                guess stupid got hers.
                That is awesome! She got what was coming to her! And I'm sure the officers were chuckling the entire way to the station as well!
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                • #9
                  I almost forgot. BABYSITTERS GET PAID MORE THAN WE DO!!!!!!!!

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                  • #10
                    Personally, if I ever have children, the only time they will leave my sight in public is if they are old enough to fend for themselves (not always an exact science because maturity is different from person to person) or they are with a responsible adult that I trust. It infuriates me to no end that in a world where children are kidnapped, raped, mutilated, and killed, parents have the audacity to leave their children all alone and available for the pedophiles to find.

                    I'd be willing to bet a week's pay that if the heffer in the story above heard about a kidnapped child, she'd be the first one to complain about how parents don't pay attention...
                    ...don't you know the first law of physics? "Anything that's fun costs at least $8.00."
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                    • #11
                      I've had one instance of that happening to me at a basketball game. This was during a playoff game (Very busy, so we are on the move.) I'm directing traffic when this mother comes up to me with her 8 year old son. The conversation went like this:

                      Dumb Mom: Excuse me, I need to run to my car to get something, and my kid doesn't want to go with me. Is it all right if you could watch him?

                      Me: *Sighs heavily* Ma'am, I can't do that because I have other things to worry about and I'm not a babysitter. You have to take your son with you, it's not in my job duties.

                      Dumb Mom: It'll only take me a minute, could you please watch him?

                      Me: I can't. I have to close this lot down and move to the next entrance. I'm not watching your kid for you. I need to get going anyway.

                      Thankfully, she gave up after that. I hate it when parents do that, it proves that they don't have any responsibility at all.
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                      • #12
                        Quoth phillippbo View Post
                        I'd be willing to bet a week's pay that if the heffer
                        Erm... 'heifer', and I don't believe her weight has any factor in the story. I don't even think it was mentioned.
                        *finger wags mockingly*
                        Sorry, I couldn't help being a little parental there.
                        "I call murder on that!"

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                        • #13
                          Quoth Juwl View Post
                          Erm... 'heifer', and I don't believe her weight has any factor in the story. I don't even think it was mentioned.
                          Actually, I think the term was used less as a reference to the woman's weight, and is more due to that common practice here on CS to equate sucky customer mothers and their children with animals, especially the barnyard type.
                          Too tired of living and too tired to end it. What a conundrum.

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                          • #14
                            Quoth CrazedClerk View Post
                            She then gives me la ook of disbelief and says "Well, weren't you watching them?" I reply that I wasn't paying too close attention to them because I had other customers and job duties to attend to. Her response: "Well that's terrible you should be keeping an eye on the kids that come in here."
                            I can't believe she actually expected you to babysit her kids! One day this moron is going to have her kids kidnapped by some sicko and wonder how it could happen to her (and probably try to sue the store that she "mistakenly" thought was a daycare center). People like this should be sterilized. It makes me so angry that this idiot has been blessed with children who she obviously does not want to take responsibility for and meanwhile all I want is to have children but I can't due to medical complications.



                            Sorry. Blatently stupid, irresponsible parents always hit a nerve with me.
                            Last edited by BunnyJas; 08-30-2006, 01:41 AM.

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                            • #15
                              It kind of makes me wonder...

                              Disclaimer: Having your children kidnapped is absolutely horrible and never, ever, 'deserved' in any way. Children move fast, make bad decisions, and predators can be sneaky. Parents cannot always protect children from them in absolutely every situation.

                              That said ... I wonder how many child abductions by strangers actually are done in situations where that child was being wantonly left unsupervised? In no way do I suggest the parents got what they deserved, but I do wonder if some of the grieving mothers and fathers you see on the news after an abduction would not be in that position if they'd just taken basic care of their kids in the first place.

                              (See why I needed the disclaimer?)

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