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  • Entitlement Whore - aka how dare you tell my child no!

    Aha, my first thread! Sorry for the length, this lady was a real winner :P

    So it was 10am, and I had just gotten back on the floor from my 15. My partner H stepped off for her break, leaving me alone on the floor for a few minutes while our other partner, J did the deposit out back.

    A young girl (about 6ish) came up to the counter, to where we have boxes of new books for donations and started going through the books! She grabbed a stack of about 5 or so, and so I leaned over the counter and said "O, sweetie those books are for donation, you can't take them.". I had no clue if this girl thought they were for sale, or being given away so I figured nip that in the bud, right? She put the books down and went to her parents in the armchairs we have out of sight of the counter.

    A customer came up the counter and started to make her order when an angry woman approached the counter and cut her off. She started shouting at me "I hope you're happy that you made a little girl cry. That other girl gave us permission to read those books, and you yelled at my child for it!"

    I apologized saying "I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding, I wasn't aware that she had given you permission."

    This didn't calm the lady at all, and she continued on "Well now I have a crying child, you WILL go over and apologize to her!" and then stormed back to her seat.

    J had come out in time to catch the end of her tirade, and raised and eyebrow at me. We finished serving the customer who had waited patiently through the woman's rant, and then I explained what happened, to the best of my hazy understanding. Together we decided that I would not go over and apologize, given the way the woman had acted.

    When H came back off her lunch, we explained what happened. She immediately asked if I had apologized, and when I told her no, she said I should because "the customer is always right". I told her she was mistaken on that one and I would NOT be apologizing to them.

    You would think that would be the end of it, right? Ha, no. About 10 minutes later she was back, again demanding that I apologize, and calling me a child hater who liked to make kids cry. She was now claiming I had screamed at her child as well. J sent me out back while he dealt with her. She was demanding the manager's number, my name and my employee number (which he did not give her). She kept going on about getting me fired and how I was a terrible person, then finally left to sit back down.

    Hoping against all odds it was safe, I came back out. Another 5 or so minutes later she made a big show of bringing back all the books they had taken to their seats... it took her 3 trips to get them all! What 6 year old needs 20+ books to read over a 30min period??? Then she left her coffee cup on the counter, glaring at me. She started in again on how she "had a very upset little girl waiting for an apology" - as the girl skipped out of our store into the attached bookstore! I apologized again for the misunderstanding and said I would talk to the girl if she would bring her over. The mother's answer? "She won't come over, she's too AFRAID". *head desk*. That was when, once again J pulled me off the floor.

    But the family was gone, that would be the end, right? Right? Please? Nope, 45 minutes later she was back in, and beelined for me again, but before she could pounce H told me to go do dishes out back. Sad that her target had been pulled from her, she proceeded to go over and complain about our store and service to the group of people who were sitting in the armchairs.

    My manager was kept updated through every stage of this mini drama, so it should make for an interesting Monday....

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    I hate to apologize for things I didn't do... but I have a girlfriend so I do it anyway.
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    • #3
      Quoth Panigg View Post
      I hate to apologize for things I didn't do... but I have a girlfriend so I do it anyway.
      Hell...When you are Married it becomes a reflex action
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      • #4
        Quoth drunkenwildmage View Post
        Hell...When you are Married it becomes a reflex action
        So much so, you begin to apologize to that are completely out of your control, i.e. it's too hot or "That retard just cut us off!"
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        • #5
          Quoth petslave View Post

          This didn't calm the lady at all, and she continued on "Well now I have a crying child, you WILL go over and apologize to her!" and then stormed back to her seat.
          "Okay, okay, bring the child here."

          .......

          "Kid, I'm sorry your mom sucks as a parent and you are completely boned because of it."

          Seriously, what kind of a failure of a human being thinks a donation bin=Free for anybody to take? Bet she also grabs food out of the donation bins at the grocery store and pitches a shitfit if anybody tries to stop her.
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          • #6
            She must have had a LOT of free time if she kept coming back into the store to try and yell at you after the fact.

            I personally would have told her...

            "You know what, lady? You are so goddamned bored that you have to invent things to bitch about. I did NOTHING to your daughter--all I said was that those books were for donations, and if you would have just shut up and listened to me, we could have ended this.

            You're a sad, sad creature to keep coming in here and trying to yell at me. If you do that again, I will call the police and have you arrested for harassment, trespassing, and assault."
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            • #7
              Jebus. What a bitch. I once had a lady pitch a shit fit because I yelled at her kids for throwing garbage at each other. She wasn't watching them play in that dumpster, but if she was I'm sure she'd have NOTHING to say to me.
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              • #8
                My immediate response is to pick up the cup that woman placed on the counter and throw the contents at her.

                This is not a good thing.

                This I know.

                So why do I wanna do it so badly?

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                • #9
                  I don't know what happened to the kid. Either mom is lying about the kid crying or, likely, daughter has learned the valuable lesson of "tears can be hours of entertainment when mommy yells at people". Or maybe the daughter is just used to crying to get attention. Or maybe she learned from mommy to cry to get things.

                  I do get if the mom doesn't know any better, that you didn't yell at her kid, but her kid came crying anyway, that mom would be pissed. But wow, what did mom want? YOu to apolgize on bended knees? Or to teach her daughter the only way to get stuff out of life is to be a bitch?
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                  • #10
                    Quoth petslave View Post
                    ...She started in again on how she "had a very upset little girl waiting for an apology" - as the girl skipped out of our store into the attached bookstore!...
                    I'm sure the little girl was happy as can be as she was skipping out of your store, with the mother being the only one who was pissed off. I would've told the wench that her daughter seemed too happy to be as 'down in the dumps' as she said she was and call it BS right then and there.

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                    • #11
                      Small update - my manager sent me a message on Facebook thanking me for how well I handled the situation .

                      I plan on talking to her Monday morning to find out if the lady ever did in fact call her, and find out what we can do if she sets foot in the store again.

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                      • #12
                        Quoth petslave View Post
                        Small update - my manager sent me a message on Facebook thanking me for how well I handled the situation .

                        I plan on talking to her Monday morning to find out if the lady ever did in fact call her, and find out what we can do if she sets foot in the store again.
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                        • #13
                          Does anyone ever give permission to the customers, allowing them to pull books from the donation bins?

                          I would think that would be a no-no in the first place because what if the book never got put back (very likely) and then got all chewed/torn/bent up ...
                          This area is left blank for a reason.

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                          • #14
                            so i take it your manager doesn't believe "the customer is always right" anymore?
                            what a bitch

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                            • #15
                              patterns

                              It's sad to think the child is going to be instilled with this and multiple situations of the like as the right way to act in society.

                              I always think of this theory when I come to clean up my store, prevent situations from happening, et al.:

                              http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Broken_...heory#The_book

                              of course, sadly, some people believe in the edict that 'the customer is always right' (to wit I state a little white lie so as to not always be running around and actually get some work done...)
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