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  • Worst day ever had me in tears by its end. (longish)

    First of all, I was opening up the service desk at 7am, after having closed at 10:30 the previous night.

    Secondly, I was by myself for nearly the entire time (the exceptions being the overlap from the cashier covering my break/lunch which lasted a few minutes).

    When I came in, the area was a mess. Everyone brings their returns and rubbish carts to the service desk area and expects me to clean, and I left it immaculate and had several completely sorted carts ready the night before.

    Several problems arose throughout the day, where I would page a manager, nobody would come, or I'd get a snarky reply on a borrowed walky talky (which I'm supposed to have to be able to communicate with managers, but I NEVER EVER DO! It's impossible to get ahold of someone otherwise), or they would call and tell me something, and then a customer would DEMAND to see them, thus repeating the same process of paging with no reply.

    And at one point I paged for a manager, I saw two going out the door (probably for a smoke break), and I asked if they were on duty, and the one said "NOT ME", and DASHED OUTSIDE. So I yelled "thanks a lot guys!", really sarcastically.

    Then I had an issue with a moneygram, that took about a combined 1 1/2 hours to rectify. To make a long story short, the little old lady that was having problems was being scammed, and sending thousands and thousands of dollars per day to Jamaica, Canada, Jersey, etc. I don't usually work mornings, so I don't see her.

    So the girl that covered my lunch was on the phone for half an hour when I came back from lunch, and the manager came over and told her to just deal with it, and walked away. We're not even supposed to call moneygram.

    Then I had to call back later and figure out the whole mess, BY MYSELF, and
    do returns. The phones we have do not stretch very well. It pissed me off so fucking much.

    Then, the icing on the cake, not 5 minutes before I punched out, and my relief was there at the counter dealing with other people. This girl was trying to return an Mp3 player, with no box. Our policy is with no boxes, that you have to exhange it for the same thing, and WE keep the box to send the product back. She argues and says she spoke to the electronics manager, and "SHE" said she could do it.

    I told her the manager was a guy, and here today. I borrow a walky talky from jewelry to call am assistant manager (again), even though the PHOTO manager already told her the policy AGAIN. I was trying to be nice so the other girl didn't have to worry about it.

    THen her mom starts pointing to signs and saying "this wasn't consistant with our policies", which isn't true, and yelling at me.

    I'm at my breaking point. I put my hand up to motion for her to stop yelling.

    Her: "DON'T YOU SHUSH ME. THAT'S VERY RUDE, I WORK IN RETAI-
    Me: I'm done with you

    And I walked around the counter, around her and her daughter, and walked to the back and punched out.

    Then as soon as I got outside, I burst into tears and started crying hysterically.

    I need a new job.

  • #2
    Yep - the moment you barely make it outside before having a breakdown, update your resume. In addition to the usual jerk customers, it sounds like you have jerk management/support, which multiplies any sucky customer tenfold.

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    • #3
      Sorry to hear about the horrible day. Retail is tough. But I wonder if it isn't so much the customers/job itself as it is the lack of support from your fellow staff. It sounds like they don't respect you or your work, either. I'd start looking for another job. Tough as it is, it will be worth your peace of mind.
      A lion however, will only devour your corpse, whereas an SC is not sated until they have destroyed your soul. (Quote per infinitemonkies)

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      • #4
        WTF kind of day is that?! That's utter bullshit for your co-workers to act that way. Want me to make them cry for you?? I can do that, I know people <.< >.>
        "I'm working for popcorn - what I get paid doesn't rise to the level of peanuts." -Courtesy of Darkwish

        ...Beware the voice without a face...

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        • #5
          Hot damn ... how do you even get up in the morning to go to work?

          That's just terrible ... and to have managers who obviously want the position/power/pay and not want the responsibility that comes with it ... tsk, tsk. (that is why whenever I was presented a position of management, I DECLINE!).


          You need resume help? We're all here to help you ....
          This area is left blank for a reason.

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          • #6
            That is craziness. *offers hugs, chocolate, and a for you to use on each of those managers* I'm sorry you had to go through that.
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            • #7
              And at one point I paged for a manager, I saw two going out the door (probably for a smoke break), and I asked if they were on duty, and the one said "NOT ME", and DASHED OUTSIDE.
              If any of my management pulled that they'd get a rather loud talking to quite possibly followed up by not being management anymore.

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              • #8
                About your managers--I'd report them to corporate.

                They probably won't like hearing that they're so disengaged and/or lazy that they go out of their way to avoid dealing with customers and helping employees.

                Quoth malmalthekiller
                I'm at my breaking point. I put my hand up to motion for her to stop yelling.

                Her: "DON'T YOU SHUSH ME. THAT'S VERY RUDE, I WORK IN RETAI-
                Me: I'm done with you

                And I walked around the counter, around her and her daughter, and walked to the back and punched out.

                Then as soon as I got outside, I burst into tears and started crying hysterically.
                I really don't want to make the OP feel worse, but doesn't anybody else get the feeling these assbags will complain to a manager and then they'll decide to finally address a problem?

                for the SCs and the OP's managers.
                Knowledge is power. Power corrupts. Study hard. Be evil.

                "I never said I wasn't a horrible person."--Me, almost daily

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                • #9
                  Quoth karma_gypsy View Post
                  You need resume help? We're all here to help you ....
                  That's an excellent idea, Karma Gypsy! Seriously - we lean on each other to vent, why can't we stick together when it gets so bad for a fellow poster so they can hopefully find a new job?

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                  • #10
                    Quoth Irving Patrick Freleigh View Post
                    I really don't want to make the OP feel worse, but doesn't anybody else get the feeling these assbags will complain to a manager and then they'll decide to finally address a problem?
                    Which problem are we referring to?

                    1) the issue of store management NOT being receptive to issues involving customers and/or staff members

                    2) the issue of the OP walking away from a customer and clocking out?

                    Now I think we can understand that issue #2 is a direct consequence of issue #1, but if Corporate is as blind as I suspect, they won't even recognize issue #1 . . they'll simply zoom onto #2, therefore making the internal issues inside the store even worse.

                    In which case, the OP might be better off to start looking for another job ASAP.

                    to the OP and a virtual bottle of wine and chocolate.
                    Human Resources - the adult version of "I'm telling Mom." - Agent Anthony "Tony" DiNozzo (NCIS)

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                    • #11
                      Quoth DGoddessChardonnay View Post
                      Which problem are we referring to?

                      1) the issue of store management NOT being receptive to issues involving customers and/or staff members

                      2) the issue of the OP walking away from a customer and clocking out?

                      Now I think we can understand that issue #2 is a direct consequence of issue #1, but if Corporate is as blind as I suspect, they won't even recognize issue #1 . . they'll simply zoom onto #2, therefore making the internal issues inside the store even worse.

                      In which case, the OP might be better off to start looking for another job ASAP.
                      I meant number 2, sadly.
                      Knowledge is power. Power corrupts. Study hard. Be evil.

                      "I never said I wasn't a horrible person."--Me, almost daily

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                      • #12
                        Unreal, just unreal. Document, document, document. The number of times you have to call, who was on duty at that time, who finally responded (if any). Photograph your area before you leave and when you come back. Give them the proof that what you experience happening IS happening. And if there is no improvement, I hope you can channel Cartman and "Screw you guys, I'm going home" because you already have a new job lined up.

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                        • #13
                          ya think?
                          my god woman, i can't believe you held it together till you were out the door.
                          i think i woulda started baulin right there at the counter!

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                          • #14
                            *hugs* If you can manage it, see about taking a mini-vacation. Some 'mental days' for yourself, where you can just relax and not have to worry about work for 3-4 days.

                            It helps a LOT. Even if you decide in the end the job isn't worth keeping.
                            It's little things that make the difference between 'enjoyable', 'tolerable', and 'gimme a spoon, I'm digging an escape tunnel'.

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                            • #15
                              Quoth Mouse View Post
                              ya think?
                              my god woman, i can't believe you held it together till you were out the door.
                              i think i woulda started baulin right there at the counter!

                              I almost started a few times at the counter. It's not the first time it's reduced me to tears. I just think I put myself out there too much, and let things get to me.

                              About clocking out-it was actually time for me to go home when the last incident occurred, which was the strange thing. I was trying to help my relief out by dealing with that customer and paging a manager over before I left. That was the horrible timing of the situation.

                              But I think I'm going to start looking, I have the next two days off and I'll really take anything that they would offer me.

                              I recently graduated, and the job market isn't looking very good for anything other than retail, but I like to think at like a group of monkeys could coordinate a store better than the management team does at my store.

                              My boyfriend (who works there as well) wants me to talk to the store manager who helped me out in a previous situation, but I don't know if I care enough to bother. I might if I have to stay.


                              But I just want to thank everyone for their support and all the posts and messages. It's nice to know I have a place to vent when I need to, and I felt a lot better after posting it.

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