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    Given the vitriol directed towards managers who show all the consistency of a kite in a hurricane, I know that what I did here is not appreciated. However, I must confess that I am now guilty of giving EWs what they want, just to make them go away.

    I'm currently TAing a course, and I'm in charge of marking the lab. Now, I asked the prof if he wanted this marked along the lines of "they did something related to what we asked for, they get the mark" (i.e. it raises the class average) or along the lines of "nope, different in the third decimal place, no mark for you" (i.e. it screws the class over). He didn't care, so I marked it fairly easily, the average on the lab was higher than on the midterm. This has not, in the least, stopped people from coming to me and complaining.

    Here's a few hints for the EW undergrads (this may be useful for anyone else, but you probably already know most of these):

    If I can't tell it's in your lab, you don't get credit for it being there. If I spend half an hour reading your 8 page lab and still can't find it, you lose marks for it being hard to find rather than for it not being there.

    Yes, this holds true for when you put references that I told you to put in at the end of the last appendix. (And how come you can be in third year, and still do something stupid like trying to have shared references for your main report and appendices?)

    If you come and get upset with me about something, please have some idea what you're trying to accomplish. I did everything except come out and say "I guarantee you won't lose marks this time if you leave your lab for re-marking", and you still insisted that you couldn't give it to me to re-mark because you'd lose marks. (The fact that you know this happens tells me that you're a jerk in your other courses, because no one knows that this happens unless they've had it done to them).

    Related to the above, please don't get upset with me and then claim that you understand that there's nothing I can do. I take people literally you know (there's no way I'm your first Aspie, not in engineering). If you say that you understand it's not my fault, my next question will be why you're continuing to yell at me. And you're right, you weren't actually yelling. However, by your logic neither was I, so trying to say that "you're yelling, not me" doesn't work.

    Trying to claim that "we got 80's and 90's in all our other labs" doesn't do a thing. Even if you did (which I doubt, unless you just managed to get a really good one from last year to copy), that is relevant to my course how? My response is "Good, you don't have to worry about failing the term even if you do poorly in this course"

    Trying to say that you need a high mark in the lab because you were counting on it to pull up your midterm mark is equally ineffective. You just explained to me that either a) you didn't work any problem sets, so deserved the bad mark as a lesson or b) you don't get the concepts (it's an OPEN BOOK exam), so passing you would be very bad. Please don't design a boiler for me until you have a better idea of the concepts involved.

    Finally, if you are that desperate for 1 or 2 marks, you're probably a lost cause already. Consider this course a write-off, and study for your others. And leave me alone! (I understand that sometimes it's the principle of the thing, but you should have learned by now that shit happens, and we have no way of telling you apart from the EWs).


    Thank you, I feel a lot better now. Even though they're EW's, and my prof is great about standing behind me (I have a sign threatening to feed people to the geese, he laughed when he read it), I can't get away with ranting to these people, because I'd probably freak out.
    Last edited by Magpie; 12-02-2009, 08:02 PM.

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    Quoth Magpie View Post
    Given the vitriol directed towards managers who show all the consistency of a kite in a hurricane, I quail to think what your reaction will be.
    I never understand why people say this. We do not allow flaming on this site, so unless someone's exceedingly sensitive, there shouldn't be any concerns about what fellow members will say. And if you ever feel you have been flamed, please, let the mods know. We want to make this welcoming for everyone. We don't want people to have to worry about getting ripped up just for posting.
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    • #3
      Quoth Broomjockey View Post
      We do not allow flaming on this site...
      Unless it's Jester. Because, you know, he's an idiot.

      "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is
      Still A Customer."

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      • #4
        *MOD NOTE- To avoid any more reporting of a double post here (and there have been quite a few, thanks) we are aware Jester double posted, but we think it's funnier to leave it, since it kind of adds a bit of hilarity to what he's saying in the posts.


        Quoth Broomjockey View Post
        We do not allow flaming on this site...
        Unless it's Jester. Because, you know, he's an idiot.


        (Anyone offended by the above comment, please pay attention to who the author is. Thank you.)
        Last edited by Ree; 12-05-2009, 12:16 PM. Reason: Adding a note

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        • #5
          Quoth Broomjockey View Post
          I never understand why people say this. We do not allow flaming on this site, so unless someone's exceedingly sensitive, there shouldn't be any concerns about what fellow members will say. And if you ever feel you have been flamed, please, let the mods know. We want to make this welcoming for everyone. We don't want people to have to worry about getting ripped up just for posting.
          Whoops, sorry about that, I was intending it to be somewhat tongue-in-cheek, I hadn't thought about how that could come across. I'll fix that to look less like I'm actually worried.

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          • #6
            Unless it's Jester. Because, you know, he's an idiot.
            ...or because he doubleposts *duck*

            (And see, now he'll delete one and make ME look like an idiot. EEP!)
            Last edited by UncleImpy; 12-02-2009, 08:05 PM. Reason: Cause Magpie posts at lightning speed!

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            • #7
              Quoth UncleImpy View Post
              ...or because he doubleposts *duck*

              (And see, now he'll delete one and make ME look like an idiot. EEP!)
              Don't worry, I saw it too. I'll be your witness to Jester's twitchy trigger finger.

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              • #8
                Quoth Magpie View Post
                (there's no way I'm your first Aspie, not in engineering).
                Good to meet a fellow Asp.

                And good to see that you're not so bad off that you allow them to cripple you. I really think you did all you could. Students have to learn to wipe their own asses eventually and if they don't learn it with you they'll learn it in the real world when their job skills mean the difference between paying off their loans and eating slices of bread for lunch.

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                • #9
                  Quoth Magpie View Post
                  Finally, if you are that desperate for 1 or 2 marks, you're probably a lost cause already.
                  Or, instead of failing, they're dickish perfectionists like I was in Junior/Senior High School. Clearly, you know their marks, so you know if they are failing, but lemme tell you, I was a teacher's nightmare. I would fight tooth and nail for every mark I felt I'd earned. I even argued myself to a 110% on a test once. It got to the point towards the end of each year where teachers would just go "how many?" I realize now I was probably kinda sucky, especially since I did it in-class. And trust me, I did not need the additional marks. So, on behalf of students like me, I'd like to apologize
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                  • #10
                    Quoth UncleImpy View Post
                    ...or because he doubleposts *duck*

                    (And see, now he'll delete one and make ME look like an idiot. EEP!)
                    Actually, normally I would delete one, but since I was pointing out the fact that I'm an idiot, it is kind of funny that I unwittingly double-posted. Especially since I tend to be such a perfectionist with my posts, as far as editing, spelling, grammar, and such...including such things as double-posting.

                    Well, what can I say? I AM an idiot.

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                    • #11
                      Quoth Jester View Post
                      Unless it's Jester. Because, you know, he's an idiot.
                      *head tilts* Hmm... why did I read that at first as though you were admitting to being gay, Jester?
                      ... Must've been the 'flaming' quote above...
                      "I call murder on that!"

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                      • #12
                        Quoth Broomjockey View Post
                        Or, instead of failing, they're dickish perfectionists like I was in Junior/Senior High School.
                        ...
                        I realize now I was probably kinda sucky, especially since I did it in-class. And trust me, I did not need the additional marks. So, on behalf of students like me, I'd like to apologize
                        Key word there being "dickish" . And thank you for making that apology, I never got around to doing one of those myself - I had to get flat out told by my grade 6 teacher that I wasn't allowed to come up and ask for more marks if I got over 90. It stuck (see OP where I mention Asperger's) well enough that I almost didn't go and claim marks from an addition error once (I had aced the exam, no lost marks anywhere, and some marks disappeared between the questions being marked, and the total being added up.)

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                        • #13
                          Oh, and another thing that these people seem to have a hard time with: unless I've announced office hours (we don't do weekly office hours, because then I have to stay past dinner, and they won't come anyhow, because the time is inconvenient), please make an appointment.

                          These people are really encouraging me to start working from home/in the library.

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                          • #14
                            Quoth Magpie View Post
                            please make an appointment.
                            *whiny voice* But thaaaaaaa~at'd mean I have to thiiink aheeeeeeeaaaad and stuuuuuuuuff. I dun waaaaaannnnaaaaaa. Why can't I juuuust shooow uuuuuuup? */whiny voice*

                            I love making appointments to see people. Means I know that I'm not a) interrupting them, and b) waiting around for them to finish up something else so they can see me.

                            The only time it's been an issue was I had one teacher who only had her office number and work email listed as contact info (which should be fine, except) and then only checked it right before class. Maybe once more during the week. Sometimes. Oh, and office hours were right before class, and right after class.
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                            • #15
                              Quoth Juwl View Post
                              *head tilts* Hmm... why did I read that at first as though you were admitting to being gay, Jester?
                              ... Must've been the 'flaming' quote above...
                              I'll admit that sometimes I can be a flaming idiot. It's rare, but it happens.

                              But that is not an admission of homosexuality--it's an admission of how stupid I can be.

                              Any thought on your part otherwise may just be wishful thinking. Or utter dread and abject terror. You decide.

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