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  • Faith in Humanity...

    GONE! Just fucking GONE!
    Last night, I walked over to greet a little kid and what I assumed was his mother, I bend down and ask the kid, "Hi, how are you today?"
    The lady is on the phone, but turns to me and says, "I found him, alone and just wandering..."
    Crap, that can't be good. I look them both over, the lady's probably forty, the kid is under ten, barefoot, in pajama pants, and, I catch a quick glimpse of the underside of his feet (Just got lucky) and they are really damn dirty. Oh, wonderful, he walked here... I think very briefly: 'Well, this is all sorts of screwed up...' but I tell the guest service desk, and she calls both of the night managers, in quick succession, while I do my best to watch the woman so I'll know where the kid is.
    Both of the front end managers come storming up front as another customer catches my attention to tell me there are 'some hoodlums outside the other door, asking people to 'donate' to some unnamed charity'... I promise to tell a manager, and turn back to look for the lady, and she's gone... Front end manager asks me as he's walking by, "What's going on?" I try to tell him everything at once, and he says, "No, where's the kid?" I point him in the direction I last saw the lady, he walks all the way down to that end of the store, looking EVERYWHERE for her, doesn't find her. He kinda shrugs in my direction, and I can do nothing from here.
    I turn around to see a cop walking in, he asks me where Guest service is, I point, he goes. At the same moment, the OTHER night manager comes up and asks me for a description of the kid and the lady, so I do my best to give them. Cop and Night Manager start talking, scour the store a bit, and finally find the kid, then spend the better part of ten minutes getting the kid to talk to them, with no luck. They offer cookies, they offer books, nothing. The lady's family apparently was near to hand, so her husband (I'm guessing) steps in, offering to hold the kid while they figure out what to do.
    The next thing I know, the cop is carrying the kid out of the store, cause he's not following when the cop leads, and I overhear, "You get to ride in an awesome car..."
    I go for my break, and Other Night Manager just happens to be standing at the register I check out through. And he says, just in passing, "Yeah, they found the dad, and he said, 'He's very autistic, he must've gotten over the wall'."
    You know your child is autistic, and you took your eyes off him for more than a minute? He was in our store at least half an hour! Secondly, THE WALL? You keep your child locked up? I'm not even a parent and I'm offended here...
    On top of all that, the ice company came in to replace our defective machine, by taking the old one out, piece by piece, leaving a huge, empty spot where it was, as the truck that was supposed to show up with the replacement never showed.
    Someone tried to buy a gift card using a different gift card (from a different store, and a temporary license) had to get front end manager's approval for that one...
    "I call murder on that!"

  • #2
    That's just awful! That poor kid could have been kidnapped or killed! What if the lady didn't find him or he got scared of her and ran away. Oh that is so upsetting.
    I'm the 5th horsemen of the apocalypse. Bringer of giggly bouncy doom, they don't talk about me much.

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    • #3
      I'm going to play devil's advocate for the parents of the autistic boy. If the child is disabled enough that he doesn't understand at that (apparent) age that wandering away from home is a Bad Thing, then yes, the parent has the obligation to ensure the child is safe. If that means a child safe lock on the front and back doors so the child cannot leave the house at night, then so be it. By "the wall" I assume he meant a fence or wall around the yard. I can easily see the kid getting up, opening the door, and climbing over the wall in order to go find whatever he was interested in at the moment (which was your store).

      I have a friend whose child is severely disabled. She has child safe locks on the doors, and an alarm bracelet on the girl's wrist that goes off if she tries to go out a window or a door unaccompanied. This is for the child's safety, and to be honest, you cannot watch your child every single second of the day. If you're in the bathroom, sleeping, trying to put out a fire or deal with some other immediate life-threatening emergency -- you don't have enough eyes or hands to be able to keep track of a child who is oblivious to their own safety.

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      • #4
        I'm agreeing with sevendaysky on the 'wall' part. I have to ask though- that child was gone for over half an hour, so that father had better been freaking out and looking for his son! My cousin is high-functioning autistic. Kids with autism are usually extremely intelligent, so it wouldn't be too hard for them to get over a fence or wall if they felt like it- not to mention they tend to be very strong.

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        • #5
          I'm willing to bet that even parents with non-autistic children try to keep them contained in a similar way.
          "We were put on this Earth to fart around, and don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise." -Kurt Vonnegut

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          • #6
            Also the parents may have thought the boy was safe in bed. Then when they went to check on him and found him gone, went looking.
            "Of all the liars in the world, sometimes the worst are your own fears." – Rudyard Kipling

            I don't have hot flashes. I have short, private vacations to the tropics.

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            • #7
              Ever been to a day-care centre, or a kindergarten, or the like? Child-proof fences, and child-proof locks, everywhere.

              Heck, when I was babysitting my niece, I locked her up. Yes, I locked her in the same house (or same yard) I was in, and except for her naps, in the same room or a neighbouring room with an open door or archway. But she was blocked in with child gates, doors and fences all the time. With me, with her parents, with her grandparents, until she was old enough to understand basic road safety (of the 'always hold an adult's hand' type), and not running off.

              Many disabled children don't understand road safety and not-running-off until much later than a normal child. So the period of 'lock the kid up' is much longer.
              Seshat's self-help guide:
              1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
              2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
              3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
              4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

              "All I want is a pretty girl, a decent meal, and the right to shoot lightning at fools." - Anders, Dragon Age.

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              • #8
                What happened with the 'hoodlums' after money for a charity?

                Rapscallion

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                • #9
                  Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                  What happened with the 'hoodlums' after money for a charity?

                  Rapscallion
                  As far as I heard, they were getting run off as the whole child thing went down...

                  Also, slight update, we got our new ice machine this morning. And it is stunning... but still doesn't work quite right.
                  "I call murder on that!"

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                  • #10
                    It's got a stun setting! Awesome!

                    "Mr Sulu - set phasers to tickle. Party time!" Now that would be a cool setting.

                    Rapscallion

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                    • #11
                      Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                      "Mr Sulu - set phasers to tickle. Party time!" Now that would be a cool setting.

                      Rapscallion
                      Any setting on an ice machine ought to be a cool setting.

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                      • #12
                        Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                        "Mr Sulu - set phasers to tickle. Party time!"
                        I think they needed to move the technology a bit farther in Star Trek... what the phasers needed was a setting for "Did I leave the stove on?"
                        *walks into room, gets hit, keeps walking, wags finger, turns and runs out*
                        "I call murder on that!"

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                        • #13
                          Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                          It's got a stun setting! Awesome!

                          "Mr Sulu - set phasers to tickle. Party time!" Now that would be a cool setting.

                          Rapscallion
                          That would be cool!
                          https://www.youtube.com/user/HedgeTV
                          Great YouTube channel check it out!

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                          • #14
                            Quoth Mikkel View Post
                            Any setting on an ice machine ought to be a cool setting.
                            It'd be a fail as an ice machie were it not
                            "Getting to the top is optional. Getting down is mandatory." _Ed Viesturs
                            "Love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking, and don't settle" Steve Jobs

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                            • #15
                              Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                              It's got a stun setting! Awesome!

                              "Mr Sulu - set phasers to tickle. Party time!" Now that would be a cool setting.

                              Rapscallion
                              I want one of those!
                              When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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