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  • Well It's No Wonder Your Child is Struggling...

    So I'm covering for a coworker at the pool as a Deck Supervisor during lessons. Basically like a manager at a retail store because we're the ones who deal with the SCs so that the instructors can actually teach the kids swimming lessons and make sure no one is drowning while they're learning (kind of important!)

    Coworker told me that for weeks, an SC has been complaining about this one instructor "she's terrible, my kid isn't learning anything, she should be fired, she has no idea what she's doing, my kid isn't going to pass to the next level...etc"

    The instructor is not terrible! She's in her first year, but she does well and tries her best every shift.

    After the first complaint, this instructor apparently broke down and cried (after lessons were over) and thereafter did her absolute best to teach in a way that satisfied every demand of this SC (absolutely no fun time for the 3-5 year olds, just working on swimming skills, minimizing wait time between the kids' turns, etc.)

    So the day that I'm working, I think say "hmmmm....let's get to the bottom of this."

    We keep records in our system. Our preschool levels are A,B,C,D,E. Pretty simple, right? It's obvious what order they go in. This girl is in a D, and is not doing well. She won't be able to pass by the end of the session (which is why SC is upset.) I check our records, and *drumroll* this girl never passed level B! She failed a level B, and the instructor recommended she take B again to master the skills needed to move on to C. Mom put her in C instead. She failed C, and was told she was not ready for D. So Mom puts her in D. And blames the instructor for her daughter not being able to pass.

    I'm so sorry that one of our newer instructors isn't capable of teaching your daughter 3 levels in one session (let's not forget about the other four kids in the class whose parents put them in the right level and also deserve attention!)

    Sigh. I wish I could say this was even close to unusual.

    When confronted with the evidence (we keep paper records of the sheets with all the skills the kids passed or failed for a certain level) SC mom was speechless for a second, but of course would not admit she was wrong.

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    And she never will. It will always be your instructors' fault because they didn't teach her precious snowflake properly the first time.
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    • #3
      I feel really sorry for the kid Rather than fail once, he's now failed three times because of his idiot of a parent.

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      • #4
        Oh yes, don't you know it's so much more important that her child keep advancing in her classes rather than, you know, learning to swim well?!

        Priorities, lady. Where the hell are yours?
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        • #5
          I've failed beginner lessons a few times before I got the basics. I had to work on my endurance. (Don't worry, ladies, it's just fine now.) My brother was my instructor a few times, and he still failed me. And now I'm glad I didn't move on until I got the basics down.
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          • #6
            sounds like the mother couldn't stand knowing that her daughter was failing and chose to ignore it
            or believed it was everyone else's fault... instead of accepting that sometimes kids develop at different rates.

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            • #7
              Honest question here... Why did the school allow the child to sign up for advanced classes after failing the basics? I'd be worried about liability.

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              • #8
                Hmm, I remember failing beginning swimming. I was terrified of being in water where my feet didn't touch the bottom or where I didn't have contact with the wall. As an adult, I now realize that a near-drowning experience as a child was the source of my fear. I still can't swim well, but I now I can at least stay afloat.
                A lion however, will only devour your corpse, whereas an SC is not sated until they have destroyed your soul. (Quote per infinitemonkies)

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                • #9
                  Quoth Raveni
                  Honest question here... Why did the school allow the child to sign up for advanced classes after failing the basics? I'd be worried about liability.
                  I do believe this is why.
                  Quoth GuardingYourLife View Post
                  She failed a level B, and the instructor recommended she take B again to master the skills needed to move on to C. Mom put her in C instead. She failed C, and was told she was not ready for D. So Mom puts her in D. And blames the instructor for her daughter not being able to pass.
                  The mother is actively putting her kid in danger, and, chances are, the instructors are powerless to stop her.
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                  • #10
                    If at first you don't succeed, try something harder dammit!!! Wait...that's not right...
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