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  • Rawr! Don't Cheat Me!

    Especially when you set the Fucking price.

    I got cheated in babysitting today. I babysat for three days, taking care of a disabled 16 with the abilities of a young toddler for 40.00's a day. She set the price herself and I confirmed it after the first day of babysitting when she got home as she hadn't been there in the morning and I had interacted with her eldest/only daughter. I got some money today and I was told it was 80.00. I was confused and confirmed that I worked three days which the girl confirmed. I was told that was all her mom said she owned me. I got her to text her mom and after no response, I had to do my flyer route (And after bashing my knee Someone should stop booby trapping my home). Finished, got some lovely food and went to her house.

    I was calm and polite, thinking maybe... MAYBE it was a simple mistake. We are only human and it does happen. She was shocked when she opened the door as I smiled sweetly and asked about the 40.00's that was missing. She then tried this gem

    SC: Didn't You (Remember this, its important) say 20.00's a day?
    Me: -Insert sweeter smile to prevent mauling- Nope, but remember? You were the one who set the price of 40.00's a day, on the phone.
    SC: -Cat butt face- (First Time seeing it ) Oh... Well I don't have the money -Insert BS escuse here-
    Me: Oh, Well when are you getting paid again? So I can get the money then?
    SC: -permanent Cat Butt Face- I get paid in two weeks
    Me: -feeling I won't get a straight answer- Okay, I'll come at the end of the month, you'll have it right?
    SC: -Cat Butt Face/Ate a crate of lemons face as she just nods-
    Me: -Says Farewell and goes home to eat food-

    I mean really if your going to pull that shit of 'Did you say' don't set the price yourself Now I have to stalk the twit to make sure I get my remaining 40.00's at the end of the month

    -Update-
    ~Warning Language ahead~

    She hadn't gone to the bank yet today so I won't be getting my money until tomorrow. She went on to say that I didn't do his verbal or physical exercises, both of which I was not informed about when I asked her on the phone what all I would need to do. She also whined that I didn't force her other two kids who I ended up watching as well were not forced to go to the park that I let them be in the house where I could actually keep an eye on them.

    I then had the delight in informing her that most people would at least charge double what I was getting for taking care of a handicap child alone as well as the fact that I was taking care of her other kids as well even though the handicap child was my priority. I also told her that she did not inform me about the exercises or I would have done them with him. I am not Psychic and also had informed her that I did not have major experience with taking care of handicap children outside of a volunteer thing where I would do art with them (Which was fun). I never claimed to have years of experience with handicap children, I just have alot of experience with children without disabilities.

    The reason I had the delight of informing her about how most people would charge extra for the handicap child along was because she tried to tell me she didn't think I had done anything for the last 40.

    That fucking pissed me the hell off! I took care of your three fucking for three fucking days! For Forty Fucking Dollars a Day!! The Younger two were easy to deal with yes but I still mother fucking watched them! None of them starved, and I didn't ignore them for hours on end! I cook for them, I made sure they were entertained, I made sure neither of them killed each other! For The Handicap child I fucking Feed him(Cooking and feeding)! I fucking changed his diapers and cleaned him when he pooped! I made sure he wasn't where he could fall down the fucking stairs and I MADE SURE HE DID NOT FUCKING EAT ANY OF THE PLASTIC BAGS THAT WERE IN HER HOME THAT COULD HAVE KILLED HIM!!

    She better give me my money because this is just bullshit

    -And Now the Conclusion-

    So I went to pick up the rest of my money. She took her sweet time coming to the door, me being a bit impatient as I needed to go and get my flyer route done and I didn't' what to be fucked around by her anymore. I rang and knocked on the door several times in a ten minute time frame, listening as if I would have heard a 'Hold on a minute' I would have been quietly waiting. She opened the door and this delightful conversastion happened.

    SB - Sucky Bitch
    Me - Again (Thoughts that I thought)

    SB- Really?
    Me- ....
    SB - I was in the bathroom
    ME- I didn't hear you say hold on so I didn't know what was going on
    SB - I mean, No One does that? (You mean I've been the only one you've tried to fuck over? lucky me... Oh you mean get impatient... )
    Me - *shrugs* I've seen it happen (My own sister to be exact, She's bitch slap patience if she got half the chance)
    SB - It's Annoying
    Me - Well so is not getting all the money your own
    SB *crosses her arms to hold my money ransom apparently* Well so is not having someone take care of your kids properly
    Me- *twitches a bit at that* I never claimed that I had alot of experiance taking care of disabled children.I did a one hour painting session where I worked for a bit
    SB - You never said you couldn't lift him! (Sorry I forgot to ask my pocket fortune teller how that would go) And you didn't take him for walks! And you said you didn't want him falling down the stairs when he wouldn't have! (Have you seen that kid when he's got intent in his eyes?) And I didn't want my other two just sitting around playing video games all day.
    Me- You did not tell me everything and I did not want to deal with the fear that he might go careening down the stairs as well as any guilt if he got hurt. And it was easier to watch the two of them when they were actually in the house plus I was not informed until after the first day that they'd be there.
    SB - I did tell you that I needed someone to watch *insert all three boy's names here* (Lies!) Besides they're 9 and 11! They can go outside without needing a babysitter (Then Why were they thrown in at the last minute?)
    Me- ...
    SB- I hate to say this (Bullshit) but you do not deserve to be a babysitter.
    Me- *feels anger and tears spike up* Whatever, just give me my money, I need to go and do my flyer route.
    SB- *hands me the paper (The First Twenty) and drops the rest which is in change BTW in true SC fashion*
    Me- *picks up the two quarters that fled her hands in the hopes of freedom from the twit and left*

    She shorted me .50 cents but at that point I was just glad she gave me my damn money. My mom was positive that she dropped the change to make it look like 'Oops you missed some' but at this point I don't care. She can love up those two quarters (Or five dimes, ten nickles or fifty pennies) as much as she wants because it's not worth it.

    I cried a bit at being told that I don't deserve to be a babysitter as I pride in the fact that I am good with kids and kids generally like me. Though it's funny because If I'm so horrible, why does her two youngest children want me to watch them again?
    Last edited by YumeIshimaru; 08-31-2011, 03:41 AM. Reason: Updates

  • #2
    I hope you get your money. Next time do yourself a favor and get it in writing.

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    • #3
      Quoth Amina516 View Post
      I hope you get your money. Next time do yourself a favor and get it in writing.
      I will. I should have learnt as I've been cheated before but I have a big heart and I'm a sucker for a sob story. Definitely going to get it in writing next time, thank you the suggestion.

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      • #4
        $20 a day wouldn't add up to $80 for three days anyway >_> She knew you had caught her in a lie...
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        • #5
          Quoth EricKei View Post
          $20 a day wouldn't add up to $80 for three days anyway >_> She knew you had caught her in a lie...
          Pretty much. My tired Brain had a slow moment when I attempted to figure how she got that math, not that I showed it.

          I think she also didn't like it that I went right to her instead of going through her daughter about this issue until I gave up.

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          • #6
            I hope you get your money, and I agree with the other posters, next time get it in writing!

            I used to babysit alot when I was younger and could keep up with the kids. I have a good heart too and tended to let people walk all over me. Until I found myself getting screwed out of money a few too many times, I'd had enough. From then on I made sure to get a signed copy of our agreed on payment and if they gave me any crap I made sure I brought up our agreement and the fact I had proof. It shut them up right quick and they paid up.

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            • #7
              I once had a memorable experience. The people lived down the street from me. I was about sixteen at the time.

              On this particular day, I was not feeling well at all, due to cramps. I hit upon the bright idea of taking the kids into the bedroom and telling them stories. This allowed me to lie on one of the beds.

              HOWEVER, I was babysitting:

              Their three kids.
              His son from his previous marriage.
              The twin girls from next door. I thought they were part of the deal. As it happened, they were just over there playing, and nobody sent them home.

              The parents gave me an insultingly low hourly rate. It was the last time I ever babysat for them.

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              • #8
                She was totally trying to cheat you, what a beast! I bet she does that to all the babysitters too.
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                • #9
                  I just got haggled down by a client...this is a friend of the "friend" who cries poormouth yet always tries to find a reason to stiff me on amounts over $100.

                  I petsit in people's homes; charge $10 per 30-minute visit/walk; $50 per day for in-home which includes a lot (all the attention your fuzzy could want, etc). That's in line with what most people charge around here. I'm willing to negotiate, but I need to know in advance.

                  So she calls me up when I'm a few towns over; I was dealing with a sick doggie (nothing too serious luckily) at the time so had my hands full. Leads off with "Now I know Beau loves you [I'd taken care of him before], but..." Uh oh.

                  "I'm going to have to start boarding him at the vet's (they charge more, besides your cat absolutely hates it there) or Petsmart (the nearest one is two towns over, he hates car trips and you'd use $20 in gas getting over there) if you won't lower your rates."
                  Wait...what? You never complained about my rates before, in fact you thought I'm a bargain.

                  I agree to $15/day (two visits); it doesn't take me that long to walk over, and I have a few new clients who are paying me more than my standard rates.

                  I found out yesterday that she ran out of canned food so I bought 3 cans which should last the rest of the week. There was actually a sale 20/$11 and I would have stocked her up had I thought I'd get reimbursed....I need something in my contract saying that it's the client's responsibility to make sure the pet is stocked up.
                  Last edited by Dreamstalker; 08-17-2011, 04:39 PM.
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                  • #10
                    That's bullshit she tried pulling that crap on you. I second the notion on getting it in writing. Shoot, I would draw up a contract of your own where the price doesn't change or something to the effect.
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                    • #11
                      Quoth Dreamstalker View Post
                      "I'm going to have to start boarding him at the vet's (they charge more, besides your cat absolutely hates it there) or Petsmart (the nearest one is two towns over, he hates car trips and you'd use $20 in gas getting over there) if you won't lower your rates."
                      Just tell her "Okay. See ya" next time she tries that. Then, let her find out how much PS, vets, and boarding places charge ^_^ She'll either come running back to you or stop pennypinching...
                      Last edited by Ree; 08-17-2011, 11:20 PM. Reason: Fixed quote tag
                      "For a musician, the SNES sound engine is like using Crayola Crayons. Nobuo Uematsu used Crayola Crayons to paint the Sistine Chapel." - Jeremy Jahns (re: "Dancing Mad")
                      "The difference between an amateur and a master is that the master has failed way more times." - JoCat
                      "Thinking is difficult, therefore let the herd pronounce judgment!" ~ Carl Jung
                      "There's burning bridges, and then there's the lake just to fill it with gasoline." - Wiccy, reddit
                      "Retail is a cruel master, and could very well be the most educational time of many people's lives, in its own twisted way." - me
                      "Love keeps her in the air when she oughta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." - Capt. Malcolm Reynolds, "Serenity" (2005)
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                      • #12
                        I've been cheated like that-when I was a kid (like twelve or so) this lady with famously badly-behaved children asked me to babysit them-and I did, and I actually managed to keep them quiet and get them tucked into bed on time and got them to actually sleep! So when their mother came back she sent me home again, and when I asked about being paid (we'd agreed on 20 bucks, since I'd be there the whole day and most of the night I should've gotten more, but I was 12 and didn't really know better)-cute cat butt face and her telling me that I'd told her I'd do it for free. I tried to point out the previous agreement, but she just shook her head and started whining about how little money she had because her husband wasn't working and waaaahhh, so I never got paid.

                        And she had the gall to ask me to babysit again later on! Needless to say I never watched her kids again. Oh, by the way, her husband only didn't work not because it wasn't possible for him to, but because he didn't believe he should have to as man of the house and he didn't want to subject himself to the soul-sucking he believed would come about from a day job, instead choosing to spend all day, every day, lying in bed playing video games, and he wouldn't even watch the kids as that was 'woman's work'. To the best of my knowledge, he has not yet improved.

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                        • #13
                          Definitely trying to cheat you. Maybe don't babysit for her until she's current? Also maybe type up a stock form fill in the price per day and have them sign it.
                          Out of retail!

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                          • #14
                            Quoth Keiara View Post
                            Definitely trying to cheat you. Maybe don't babysit for her until she's current? Also maybe type up a stock form fill in the price per day and have them sign it.
                            This. Also, get half in advance. If you don't get it, leave.
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                            • #15
                              Our sitter is incredibly low, even for the rates around here ($4/hr, going rate is between $5-7/hr yes I know I'm spoiled). We pay her in ADVANCE, including tip, when we drop our son off. Why? Because she's had people cheat her out of entire weeks' worth of daycare. She risks losing clients by asking in advance, but I have to respect that she's not willing to lose money again.

                              I don't understand why people will take advantage of the people they need to care for their loved ones. I mean, I would pay considerably more than that (if I had it) to know my son is safe and happy while I get some desperately-needed time with the wife.

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