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    This morning I was pulling a row of carts in from the sidewalk and I saw a man with his young son crossing the parking lot. The man asked me if I could give him one of the carts, which I happily complied with. But then he said something that caught my attention.

    Parent of the Year = PY

    PY: Thank you, I'm just going to get the baby.

    Okay, I think, maybe he left his wife or another adult with the baby so he could grab a carriage. I see it happen all the time. He left his son, who couldn't have been older than three, on the sidewalk and took the shopping cart out to his car.

    Now, he was parked beside one of the mulch patches, which is right across from the road from the doors. But as I'm breaking down the row of carts to bring into the store, I see that there wasn't an adult in the car, but rather he had left his baby in the car.

    Okay, the baby was probably about eighteen months, but, still, it was a baby. That he left alone. In the car.

    Yes, he was going to grab a shopping cart, but lets say I hadn't come along. The only carts that would be close enough for him, as he walked in with his three year old son, would have been inside the store.

    That would have been a good five or six minutes that his baby was sitting in the car. Alone.

    Maybe I'm over reacting a teensy bit. But I told my supervisor who was just as surprised as I was, but when he saw that the father come in with both kids in the cart, told me there was nothing we could do about it.

  • #2
    He should have been able to bring the baby with him instead of going back and forth, which is what most people do. Leaving the older child like that is scary and stupid.

    When you're by yourself with kids, there's going to be times when they're alone. You can't be everywhere at once. Though in your case, it wasn't necessary for either one to be alone.

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    • #3
      And ... he then left his toddler standing on the sidewalk while he went back for the baby???
      Last edited by Dave1982; 05-25-2012, 02:01 PM.

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      • #4
        I juggle a baby and a four year old. It may be awkward, but I certainly manage to keep both of them with me when I'm out and about. Would never leave either alone in a parking lot.

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        • #5
          The baby was probably actually safer than the toddler left standing alone in a car park, to run out in front of a car or even be grabbed and taken.

          Boggles the mind how anyone can justify that. Yes, managing two kids on your own is hard, but you figure it out. Hold the baby in one arm, take the toddler by the hand, and go off together to find a cart. Or hire a sitter. Or find someone else to shop with you. Or find any solution you like that doesn't endanger your children.

          Too bad there's not some way to make new parents sit thru some parenting classes before they can take a new baby home from the hospital - or just inject a bit of common sense into them.

          Madness takes it's toll....
          Please have exact change ready.

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          • #6
            Hell, I'm not a parent and I could've handled that better than that dude did!

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