Really???? Can you not read? (LONG)

[pageantmama]

I posted this thread a few days ago http://www.customerssuck.com/board/s...ad.php?t=81012

I got everything worked out with the girl or so I thought. But then again if she actually saw reason she would not be a TRUE SC

I get on facebook this morning and check a pageant trading group I run and see this posted on there.

"I still have not got my daughter dress or ooc i got you to make. It has been 2 weeks now. When i message you or post on your wall i get no response. Either i want my dress and ooc or i am taking charges out. I do NOT recommend ANYBODY to bu...y from you until i get my stuff. I paid YOU to MAKE it and SEND it not to take my money. You claim you have NO tracking number so i cant find out where it is. But like i said, either my stuff or charges. You take the pick!! and btw, i thought your name was (my first name)? Thats exactly what you sent me in a message with your address???? and i still have it!!"

From me, again on the public forum so everyone can see I am answering her

"you know very well I have answered every one of your messages and the last message we sent to each other on Friday said I was going to remake your order and send it today since you still had not gotten it for whatever reason. Why are you saying that I have not responded to you? That is the same thing you told your sister and she messaged me all angry until I explained the situation and let her know yes I have sent you messages. I have told you since I could not get to the post office because of my transmission being shot my husband took it on his way to work and threw away the receipt not realizing I needed it. The other two people I mailed to that day has gotten theirs so I don't know why yours did not arrive. And that I was remaking your order this weekend and sending today. I was logging on here to make sure I had your address correct because I was on my way to the post office in a little while and I see this. If you want to say that I am avoiding you and not sending you any messages and lie then why shouldn't I think you are lying about not getting it since I don't have proof that you got it or not? Yes my name is (first middle last name). I use my first name for my address, and middle on here because number one I hate the name (first name) and number two this is my personal account and every I know in real life knows me by (middle name). I was trying to fix this and I was taking the loss but this really makes me upset that you are trying to tell everyone that I am avoiding you and not sending you anything and not answering you. I am going to send this out and post your tracking number on here so everyone can see that you are getting your package so you cannot say you never received this one. Whether you got the first one or not I am still gonna fix this and then you are blocked from my page."

From her

"Sorry, But i have NOT recieved my package! I sent you the money on the 3rd and you claimed it only took 2 days to make both, which kinda sounds not right. I have sent you messages and you did NOT responde! What about the post i posted on yo...ur wall about the dress and ooc and you NEVER tried to get in touch with me. I DO NOT recommend ANyBODY to you! Because you seem to be a scammer. Like i said, either dress and ooc or charges honey, you take the pick! It dont take that long for my package to arrive. And i will NOT resend the first package back to you IF i ever recieve it because of all the trouble this has caused me. And block me, just seems your getting mad because the truth is coming out and i'm letting everyone know i havnt recieved my package from you yet!"

And the last one from me

"Honey, it only takes me a couple of hours to make a babydoll dress and maybe 4 hours to make a cupcake dress. Your dress was not stoned which is the part that takes the longest. You can ask any of my customers, I have made a full glitz dr...ess with 15 gross of stones in 3 days and sent it overnight because they needed it rushed. I can get an order done very quickly. Most of the designers and seamstresses can, they give you a longer waiting time because they don't want to get stressed over a bunch of orders and sew non stop 24/7. I don't respond to wall posts, I send replies in private messages which you already know because I sent you messages, as well as your sister. Which by the way I have let your sister know that you are posting on here and telling everyone that I never responded to you. She said she is going to be letting your mother know because you know that I have sent you messages and we worked it out. Things happen in the mail, and I told you that I was remaking it this weekend and was also going to throw in another outfit that you liked I had for sale since this was an issue. And why would you not resend the first one back if you get it? Sounds to me like you are the scammer and that since you knew that I didn't have the tracking since he threw it away you either have the first package and you are going to sell it and keep the new one or you plan on getting it and keeping it to sell. I already sold you the dress and casual wear for cheaper then I even sell an unstoned babydoll dress because you gave me a sob story about how you could not afford a dress and I felt bad for you and wanted to help you out and make a custom dress AND ooc for you for only 75.00. Take out for shipping and cost of material and I did not make a thing off that order. And now that I remade it for you and I am reshipping AND sending you another outfit for your trouble I am basically paying to send you some pageant clothes. So yes you are blocked because I do not want to do business with something that is going to have a problem and go lie to her sister and get her to send me messages, and then lie on a public forum.And what trouble has it caused you? The pageant is not for 2 more weeks. I am the one that had to spend more money on materials and push other orders aside to remake your outfits, and lose money on the extra outfit and shipping. I have went to a lot of trouble to fix this for you and now you are going to come on here and say I have not answered any of your messages and I am scamming you? I don't care who knows that you did not receive your package yet, everyone knows that the mail screws up and things happen. But for you to come on here and lie and say I have not responded to your messages and I am ignoring you and stole your money, that is what upsets me."

[fireheart]

What a mother donkey .

[pageantmama]

I did sent the links to her sister and she said she was sorry and she was going to tell their mom, and that she is a teenager and that is just how she acts. Teenager or not she is a little bitch. I understand that it might look kind of strange that I don't have a tracking number for her package (which my husband is paying for dearly for throwing it away or whatever he did with it) but when I message her and offer to totally remake everything and send her an extra outfit as well and she acts like that. Ugh.
And she just posted another message and I had to respond.

"I have NEVER got the other dress and ooc and im upset. The pageant is a couple weeks away and i need it! Sorry if i came off wrong. My sister took it upon herself to message you because i have not recived it. My mother knows and is very upset herself. And Ashley messaged me worried because she said she had been messaging you and you didnt message her back.. So... Take that up with her."

"I know you did not get the dress, I never said you did. That is not the issue here. The issue is that you lied to your sister and said I did not respond to your messages when the last message on our private messages was from me to you. And don't try and say I never answered Ashley because I answered her as soon as she sent that message to me. Then I messaged you back and told you about her messaging me and then me and you talked and me and her talked about the situation and worked it out. Then I come on here and see this. Yes you did not get your dress yet but I DID message you when you sent me messages, I DID message your sister back and we DID work out a solution that I was going to remake your order and send you a new outfit. Then you come on here and say I have ignored you. Are you still going to say I never answered your messages or are you going to admit I did and that we worked it out Friday and that I am supposed to be sending your new order today? Or do I need to post every single message between me and you and your sister including the dates and times?"

[pageantmama]

OMG, this girl is bringing out the "hold my earrings and give me a hairband to pull back my hair because I am gonna stomp this bitch" in me. I am a great person to work with and will do anything to make it up to my customers and I was so sorry that this happened to her. Now I could care less. Ugh, I need to calm down.

[tropicsgoddess]

Oh, that bitch is puttin' out some fightin' words. Time to bring out the vaseline and take my earrings off!

[morgana]

PM, you want some help? (I know you don't need it. Do you want it?) Bitch is pissing ME off, and I've never even met you in person.

Good for you, going public with the smackdown. Everyone she's telling about this needs to know who's REALLY the problem.

[Grape The Cat]

What is ooc? I agree with the others the woman sounds like a terrible little bratty bitch.

[pageantmama]

Lol, thanks for the encouragement guys. This is why I love being my own boss. Otherwise I would have to kiss her ass. When she realized I was not going to back down and take her crap now she is trying to be all nice. Too late, honey, you are already on my banned list. And OOC stands for outfit of choice, some pageants have an extra category with a theme and you have to wear something that relates to that theme, and some will do Outfit of choice and you can wear any type of outfit you want for it. She told me this sob story about how she was a teen mom and couldn't afford clothes for her daughter so I made her a dress for less then I make them normally, and threw in a free OOC since I had some leftover ballerina material from another one I made. Her daughter is only 6 months so it was just enough material that I would have thrown away otherwise. Then when it supposedly got lost in the mail I went and bought new fabric for the dress and more of the same ballerina material to remake her stuff because I know things get lost and it was my fault for not reminding my husband to keep the tracking numbers from the stuff he mailed that day. Then she pulls this shit.

[SpaceCore]

Honestly this is getting to the point where I, if I were a dress maker, would refund the SC and sell the dress elsewhere at your normal cost.

[Stryker One]

Where is this "teen mom" getting the money to put her daughter in pageants? This seems like it should be filed under parent-fail.

[bainsidhe]

Honestly this is getting to the point where I, if I were a dress maker, would refund the SC and sell the dress elsewhere at your normal cost.

So much this. Don't accuse me of cheating you when I'm bending over backwards to help you out. I can't fire customers at my current workplace, but if I were a private businessperson? *shakes fist* Though before I blocked the jerk, I'd make a bullet list of why she's "fired" as a customer.

[Laund-o-rama Mama]

Her daughter is only 6 months

Wait, she's a MOTHER? I'm sorry, but if she has birthed, her family can't use the excuse that she's "just a teenager and just like that". If you have kids you grow the fuck up. Just MO. They are seriously enabling her douche-ittude.

[georgie]

PM the evil side of me says when you make the new dress for the little girl, make something about it a tiny bit different than the supposedly lost dress

so then when you see pics of the little girl in the future you can tell if she (or anyone else screwy mom has passed one of the dresses to) is wearing the remade dress or the "lost" dress

[pageantmama]

I was so going to just send her her money back after this but I already had the dress remade and rushed it so I sent it anyway just to show people that I still sent it even though they saw what a bitch she was. I didn't want to remake it in the first place but like I said I had no proof it was not actually delivered since I didn't have the tracking number anymore and I just wanted to make things right plus I knew her mom had paid for it and I didn't want to screw her mom over for her daughters mistake of being a you-know-what.

And yes, she is a mom. 17 with a 6 month old. My own mother was a single teen mom so I have nothing against a teen that gets pregnant and has a baby. But a teen that still acts like a baby having kids, yeah, I have a problem with that. Her mom pays for all her daughters pageants and pageant clothes. I think she needs to worry about getting a job and living on her own instead of sticking her daughter into pageants but the way her sister apologized for her I think her sister and mother makes excuses for her and makes her entitled. I don't care how old you are you don't treat people like that and then lie and make them the bad guy when you have been a bitch all along. She was sweet as can be at first of course trying to get a deal from me and I stupidly fell for it. Then the first problem comes up and she goes crazy. Her sister even told me in her original message to me that the girl has been crying over this whole dress situation and that I should not have cheated her out of her money and not answered her messages. Number one I did answer every message and even made calls to the post office to see if anything could be done and told her that, and number two who the heck cries over a lost pageant dress, especially when they are told that I would send out a new one before the pageant if she did not get it by a certain date?

And I thought about making it kind of different just to see if I saw pictures of her daughter wearing the original one or this one, and to see if she tried to sell either one of them if she was keeping one and selling one. But I didn't think about it until today when I already had it boxed up to go SHe even said in those posts she would not send the original back if she did get it "for her trouble" so I have a feeling that she either did get it and I got scammed big time or that she knows she will get it eventually and wants to resell it.

[georgie]

it sounds you definitely got scammed.

silly girl coz now it means she'll never be able to buy her daughter pretty dresses from you again (or her family)